For the past several months, I’ve been spending tens of thousands of dollars remodeling my new old house. I’m only its second owner in the house’s 68 year old history and it needs a lot of work as a result. For example, I just spent $9,000 painting the exterior, the fence, the windows, and all the metal fixtures. The painter estimated the house hadn’t been painted in 25 years! He mentioned that his crew normally uses two gallons of spackle to fix stucco cracks on a house my size, but they used eight gallons to smooth everything out.
Even though I budgeted extra money to bring the house up to date, I still feel dirty spending so much money. It makes me wonder whether we all have some type of self-correcting overspending limit, just like we all have this self-correcting over-eating limit. If we didn’t, we’d all be obese and broke. Nobody I know wants to work forever and feel the constant stress of having no money.
If the average desire to spend is a 5 out of a 1-10 point scale, I’m about a 3. But for the past several months, I’ve been spending at an uncomfortable 9. I’m curious to know where would you rank yourself on the spending scale?
Some of us might have to hit rock bottom before we find our happy spending / saving balance, but at least that makes future spending and savings habits that much stronger.