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/> </a></div><p><strong> </strong></p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><em><a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/barter.jpg"><img
class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-8178" title="barter" src="http://www.financialsamurai.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/barter-247x300.jpg" alt="" width="247" height="300" /></a>This is a guest post written by Mike, a financial planner / web entrepreneur who is pursuing his dream of running his online business. You can follow his progress at <a
href="http://www.thefinancialblogger.com" target="_blank">The Financial Blogger</a> (<a
href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheFinancialBlogger" target="_blank">RSS Feed</a>) and read his other financial blogs at <a
href="http://www.greenpandatreehouse.com/" target="_blank">Green Panda Treehouse</a> (<a
href="http://feeds2.feedburner.com/greenpandafinances">RSS Feed</a>) and <a
href="http://www.intelligentspeculator.net/" target="_blank">Intelligent Speculator</a> (<a
href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/IntelligentSpeculator">RSS Feed</a>).</em></p><p>3 years ago, I was told by many bloggers: <strong><em>“You will never make money blogging. And if you do, $200/month will be your highest peak ever”.</em></strong></p><p>Three year ago, The Financial Blogger was averaging 500 visits per month and I was ecstatic when I made my first deal of $10 for a link.</p><p>Three years later, I now run three financial websites, bought 2 of them and flipped a blog within a year. I am now able to work 1 full day per week on my online business (while I still have to keep my “day job” in the meantime). I really like buying and managing finance blogs as I think it is currently one of the best investing opportunities we can find.</p><p>When I asked Sam if I could write a guest post for Financial Samurai, he asked me to include more details on how I appraised blogs and how do I decide or not to send $10K over the wire (or more!) simply to buy a “.com”.</p><p><strong>Look at Blogs as a Real Estate Investing Opportunity<span
id="more-8141"></span></strong></p><p>When I first started my blog, I went into a partnership with one of my friends (who is the co-founder of our company). He has been in the website industry since the 90s, well before the .com bubble. He told me to picture a rental property in order to understand how a website can generate income and how it should be valued. He actually wrote an interesting piece about the difference between <a
href="http://www.intelligentspeculator.net/investment-talking/buying-domainswebsites-buying-cheap-landreal-estate/">real estate investing and website investing</a> recently.</p><p><strong>His main point is the following:</strong></p><p>When you value a rental property, you will most likely pay between 10 to 15 times the yearly revenue. Therefore, if the property generates about $40,000 in rental income, you will pay between $400,000 to $600,000 to purchase it.</p><p>When you value a website, you will most likely pay 18 to 24 times the <strong>monthly income</strong>. Therefore, your investment return can easily reach 50% the very first year!</p><p>While both type of properties will generate monthly income, the first one will be paid over 20 years (if not more) and the latter will take less than 2 years to be reimbursed. So now that I have proven that there is a great investing opportunity, <strong>how do you value a website?</strong></p><p>A few months ago, we purchased Green Panda Treehouse. This is a great personal finance blog aimed at young college graduates to help them manage their personal finances. Since I am still in my 20s, I thought it would be great to add my financial expertise and write more about topics such as asset allocation for beginners or tips for first home buyers (since I have a banker background). So let’s take this example:</p><p><strong>How Did We Value Green Panda Treehouse</strong>:</p><p>There are several metrics when we are about to purchase a website. So before we even start with the calculations, we are looking at minimum requirements. The site must be:</p><p>- <strong>At least 1 year old</strong> (in order to have valid traffic data and to have it recognized by Google).</p><p>- <strong>Minimum of 10,000 visits per month</strong> (it’s easy to build a blog with 3,000 visits/month, since we are looking to save time, we need a good visitors base).</p><p>- <strong>Minimum of 50% of visits coming from search engine</strong><strong>s</strong> (we don’t want to have boosted traffic from social media since those readers don’t stay long on your site, don’t click on ads, don’t comment and don’t register to any of your RSS feeds).</p><p>- <strong>Minimum of 300 RSS readers</strong> (just to make sure you have a community following you).</p><p>- <strong>Must not be a Page Rank 0</strong>. PR0 websites means that Google doesn’t like them. While I don’t give very much weight to PR, I just want to make sure it’s not 0 because I don’t want my blogs to be penalized by the search engine.</p><p>- <strong>Must be under monetized</strong>. While I am not the biggest pro in monetization, I like to find blogs that are under monetized according to my knowledge. It gives me confidence that I will be able to get my investment returns faster than 24 months.</p><p>Green Panda Treehouse met all those pre-requisites. Therefore, we went ahead and did some calculations. Since the site was big (around 10,000 visit/month) but not huge (over 35,000 visits per month), we were able to apply the 18 to 24 months of income rule. For bigger websites, you certainly have to add a premium for the brand, size of community and future income potential.</p><p><strong>How do you assess income?</strong></p><p>Before putting a number on a website, I like to look in-depth at the different sources of income. I don’t like blogs that are dependant on just one source of income (commonly Adsense or Text links). This makes the business risk greater than well diversified income sources.</p><p>In fact, there are a lot of income sources for a blog and I would like to see all of them (in various proportion) such as:</p><p>-         Adsense</p><p>-         Text Link</p><p>-         Banners</p><p>-         Affiliates</p><p>-         Products (ebooks, services, paid newletters, etc.).</p><p>The more diversified the sources of income, the more I will be willing to give 24 to 36 months of income (since you can really consider it as a business and not a small sideline).</p><p>You can have additional weight if you have been monetizing your blog for several months. If you can show an uptrend for more than 6 months, you can definitely talk about potential future growth. If not, I think the word potential is overrated in the internet world. Everybody talks about “potential” but nobody develops it because “they don’t have the time”… right!</p><p><strong>Other particulars</strong></p><p>There are a few particulars to look at before buying a website. This is more looking towards what you are looking for and what you want to buy as a blog. You can look at the following points before you start shopping:</p><p><strong>Niche Content</strong></p><p>Do you want to talk about personal finance in general or a specific aspect such as frugality or investments? Obviously, an investment blog will be worth a lot more because advertisers will pay more to show investing products versus coupons.</p><p><strong>Popular posts</strong></p><p>I’ve seen some blogs getting 30 to 40% of their traffic from only 2 or 3 articles. You want to make sure that you have several popular articles in Google so you can count on a steady traffic base. If most of your pages viewed depend on 1 or 2 keywords, chances are that most of your income depends on the very same words. Therefore, it adds to the risk.</p><p><strong>Restrictions</strong></p><p>Some blogs are very personal and related to its author. While this can be the purpose of a blog, there are some blogs where readers are less attached to its author than others.  While you want to have a strong community, you don’t want it to be too strong either. A lot of readers may leave if you don’t have the same writing style or train of thought of the previous owner.</p><p>Some also consider offering a writer’s position to the previous owner to make sure they keep their readership (We kept Stew who was writing 3 times a week on <span
style="text-decoration: underline;"><a
href="http://www.gatherlittlebylittle.com/">Gather Little by Little</a></span> for example). It’s not a bad idea at first since it gives you the time to “break-in” your new readers.</p><p><strong>Doe</strong><strong>s buying/selling blogs constitut</strong><strong>e</strong><strong> a good business model?</strong></p><p>I personally believe that there is a huge investment opportunity in the blog management business since we are currently in a very inefficient market. Since there are not a lot of buyers and that blog valuation is still complex and a standard method has not yet been determined, there are several gems available for a very small price. Our most recent purchase; Green Panda Treehouse was a perfect example.</p><p>On that note, if you ever consider selling your blog or if you have any questions regarding blog valuation, don’t forget to shoot me an email at thefinancialblogger (at) gmail (dot) com!</p><p><strong>Other resources:</strong></p><p>I’ve written a few other articles about how to value and to buy another blog, you can read them here:</p><p><a
title="Permanent Link: How To Buy A Blog in 3 Easy Steps" href="http://www.thefinancialblogger.com/how-to-buy-a-blog-in-3-easy-steps/">How To Buy A Blog in 3 Easy Steps</a></p><p><a
title="Permanent Link: How To Buy A Blog Step 2: Assess the value of a Blog" href="http://www.thefinancialblogger.com/how-to-buy-a-blog-step-2-assess-the-value-of-a-blog/">How To Buy A Blog Step 2: Assess the value of a Blog</a></p><p><a
title="Permanent Link: How To Buy A Blog Step 2: Assess the value of a Blog Part 2" href="http://www.thefinancialblogger.com/how-to-buy-a-blog-step-2-assess-the-value-of-a-blog-part-2/">How To Buy A Blog Step 2: Assess the value of a Blog Part 2</a></p><p><a
title="Permanent Link: How To Buy A Blog Step 3: Finalizing the Transaction and Integrating the community" href="http://www.thefinancialblogger.com/how-to-buy-a-blog-step-3-finalizing-the-transaction-and-integrating-the-community/">How To Buy A Blog Step 3: Finalizing the Transaction and Integrating the community</a></p><p>Also, if you want to learn more about how to buy, build and sell a blog, I suggest you register to my free newsletter where I discuss how I am building my online company one blog at a time!<br
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/> </a></div><p>Here&#8217;s a short 10 minute video I stumbled upon which eerily highlights several things I do and why (ie play guitar), as well as touch upon reasons why some people are willing to <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/05/12/the-list-of-dream-jobs-id-do-for-free-baby/" target="_blank">do things for free</a>, and others strongly consider <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/02/26/the-curse-of-making-too-much-money-and-not-pursuing-your-dreams/" target="_blank">giving up big salaries</a> to just work on a hobby.</p><p><object
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id="more-7856"></span></strong></p><p>I find myself agreeing with pretty much everything the video has to say.  Money has become a secondary motivational factor for me over the past several years.  Something just happened where I&#8217;ve become satisfied in making what I make, oh my!  Sure, I have a <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2009/12/31/samurai-predictions-and-resolutions-for-2010/" target="_blank">&#8220;make $1 million bucks&#8221;</a> goal for 2010, but that&#8217;s really just one of those fun, see if I can do it goals.  Autonomy, mastery, and purpose are things I look forward to now.</p><p><a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2009/12/14/the-katana-1214-whats-your-one-word-definition-of-happiness/" target="_blank">Progress</a> is a wonderful feeling, which is why I try and play a musical instrument and sing in my free time.  Music also helps fill the void when I&#8217;m injured due to sports.  Going from not knowing the chords and the words of a song, to mastering a tune from memory that&#8217;s good enough to record is an unbelievable sense of accomplishment.  I&#8217;ve been working on getting the finger picking of Pearl Jam&#8217;s &#8220;Just Breathe&#8221; for the past month, and I can&#8217;t seem to get it right.  But dammit, I&#8217;m going to keep practicing because it&#8217;s such a beautiful song!</p><p>After you have a certain amount of money and experience, you definitely want autonomy.  You&#8217;re no longer a fresh college grad that is constantly micro-managed by senior colleagues.  A sure fire way for a company to lose a star employee is to restrict their freedom and <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/06/14/overcoming-everything-the-wall-in-the-workplace/" target="_blank">ignore their good work</a>.  Blogging is an incredible example of autonomy.  Nobody is going to tell me what to write and that&#8217;s so liberating.  I&#8217;ll thrive and fade with my decisions alone.</p><p>Purpose is something that can either be questioned before you start your journey or after.  You can be a high school or college student who has no freaking idea what you&#8217;re supposed to do in life.  Or, you can be a 20 year veteran in the workforce who has built a great resume, as well as financial security, but realize you&#8217;re middle aged now and wonder if there&#8217;s more to life since you&#8217;ve already conquered insecurity, be it financial or otherwise.</p><p>The purpose of this site was never to make money.  The purpose was to just create something tangible that serves as a creative outlet for someone who was once creative.  I want to be that kid in pottery class again, molding that wet clay on a rapidly rotating swivel stick.</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what are several motivating factors for you in your life or in your job?  Have you noticed money increase or decrease in importance as a motivational factor?</em></p><p>Regards,</p><p>Sam @ Financial Samurai<em> – “Slicing Through Money’s Mysteries”</em></p><p><em>Follow on Twitter <a
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id="more-7621"></span></p><p>Is it really that bad I think to myself?  It&#8217;s not like he was convulsing or anything.  <em>&#8220;Shall I drive Dad?&#8221;</em> I ask.</p><p>&#8220;<em>Nahh</em>,&#8221; he responds and tells me to enjoy my meal.  Dad lumbers to the car and drives his usual slow self away, careful not to run any stop signs.</p><p>Five hours later at about 12:30am I hear a car pull up to the driveway with a loud car door thud seconds later.  The brakes, oh how those brakes squeak, reminding us to replace.  I rush downstairs and ask Dad if everything is OK.  He pulls out a little plastic vile, starts to jiggle it back and forth, and reveals a prideful grin.</p><p><em>&#8220;What&#8217;s that Dad?&#8221;</em> I ask incredulously.</p><p><em>&#8220;This son, is a site to see!&#8221;</em> as he opens up the vile and pulls out a piece of gauze.  <em>&#8220;Come look closer.&#8221;</em> As I inched my way closer to the vile I noticed something long and grey.  <em>&#8220;This son is a once inch steel bristle from the steel brush we used to clean the grill!  It was lodged in my throat!&#8221;</em></p><p><em>&#8220;Holy sh*t Dad!  You weren&#8217;t kidding when you said you needed to go to the ER.&#8221;</em></p><p><em>&#8220;Nope.&#8221;</em> My dad then proceeded to carefully lay the metal bristle back on the cotton gauze, and back into the vile.  Like saving a bullet from a bullet wound, Dad will always save this thorn.</p><p><strong>INDEPENDENCE</strong></p><p>Many of us really thought he was faking his injury because of his demeanor.  It was almost surreal how calmly he excused himself from the picnic table.  If you had an inch long metal bristle piercing the front side of your throat, and couldn&#8217;t swallow, what would you do?  I&#8217;ve had contact lenses disappear into the back or the bottom of my eye sockets and I&#8217;m in a frenzy.</p><p>Dad would be the perfect candidate to shoot a real life Animal Planet  commercial on what TO DO when a grizzly bear attacks.  Without witnessing countless examples of his Zen-like responses, I&#8217;d be less balanced.  My face would probably contort more when <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/03/19/punctuality-breeds-credibility-tardiness-flakers/" target="_blank">people are late</a>, and I&#8217;d probably panic more at things outside of my control.  For this, I&#8217;m thankful.</p><p>Of all things, independence is what I&#8217;ve learned most from my father.  He gave me the leeway to do whatever I wanted in life, all the while exposing me to a myriad of his interests, so that perhaps some would rub off on me one day.  He never forced me to choose, but instead gave me the freedom to make the right choices.  He showed me not to count on handouts and to believe in myself.  When he drove himself to the emergency room and waved us off, I was reminded of independence once again.</p><p>Thanks Dad and Happy Father&#8217;s Day!</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what are some of the things your father have taught you in a direct or indirect way?</em></p><p>Regards,</p><p>Sam @ Financial Samurai<em> – “Slicing Through Money’s Mysteries”</em></p><p><em>Follow on Twitter <a
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/> </em></p><p>The conundrum is that even during my most dejected times, when all I wanted to do was give up, I got promoted like clockwork.  One would argue that everything is in the mind, and that if the company is promoting me then by default, they are recognizing my work.  Yes, to a large extent this is very true.  What people don&#8217;t realize is that with each promotion comes a higher and higher hurdle to achieve until one day, the hurdle stands 20 feet tall and becomes physically impossible to clear anymore.</p><p>The pace of progress has slowed, and I&#8217;m left wondering how to continue improving.  It&#8217;s like making money.  Even a multi-millionaire can make an extra buck.  It never ends.  The pull of other people&#8217;s success draws me to create my own.  Again, a comparative issue which is hard to avoid.  Once you become the manager of the first floor, you begin to wonder what it&#8217;s like to be the manager of all ten floors.  Pretty soon everybody expects you to keep succeeding and peers no longer praise you because you are expected to win.  Here&#8217;s when things begin to unravel.</p><p><strong>LOOK OUT FOR OTHERS</strong></p><p>The solution is to never stop giving.  At some point in our careers we have the duty and the power to nurture others.  It&#8217;s like waking up one day at 35, realizing you&#8217;re not the youngest person in the crowd anymore.  There&#8217;s no novelty or glee in telling others how far you&#8217;ve come at such a young age, because you&#8217;re just not that young anymore.  There&#8217;s always a new crop of people coming in, and it&#8217;s up to you as the senior person to recognize other people&#8217;s efforts openly with no concern of your own.  Stop thinking about yourself.</p><p>Refuse to <strong>not</strong> see someone and all their talents.  Don&#8217;t let them be invisible.  Allow them to turn off all their light bulbs except one.  All anyone needs is just one.</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, have you ever felt invisible in your career, with your friends, or family?  What about in the online world if you have a website?  If so, how do you cope and make sure you don&#8217;t let the feeling of irrelevance keep you down?<br
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/> </strong></p><p>There&#8217;s a reason why the best and brightest flock to the big coastal cities of America.  It&#8217;s where the best jobs, and therefore the best pay reside.  The networking opportunities are amazing, and if you have New York City on your resume for example, it&#8217;s like a stamp of approval that you can handle anything.</p><p>Some will say that big city living is expensive.  True.  But, that&#8217;s because you are making so much more money it evens out in the beginning.  As you progress in your career, your income starts to completely outstrip your basic living costs and real wealth starts to build.  The upper limits of the income band are much higher, which is one of the key competitive advantages.  A big city provides you the platform to make things happen.</p><p><strong>CONCLUSION</strong></p><p>By the time you retire from a superstar city, you can practically move to any other city in the world, and your living expenses will be cheaper.  Whereas if you start off in Altoona, Kansas, you&#8217;re pretty much stuck.  It makes sense that if you want to be the best, you should compete with, and surround yourself with the best.  The Lakers have the marquee player in the West with Kobe Bryant and the best coach in Phil Jackson.  Boston&#8217;s Doc Rivers and the big three aren&#8217;t too bad either.  The A players want to be in the best locations, and so should you.</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, for the younger readers especially, what&#8217;s holding you back from moving to a bigger city if you&#8217;re looking to build greater wealth? </em></p><p><em>Do you believe superstar cities offer more career and wealth building opportunities?  Or do you believe bigger cities just cause you to go broke?</em></p><p><em>Who do you think will win the NBA championship?</em></p><p>Regards,</p><p>Sam @ Financial Samurai<em> – “Slicing Through Money’s Mysteries”</em></p><p><em>Follow on Twitter <a
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/5stringserenadessamuraiFINAL1.mp3">this song </a>to all the female readers who helped share their viewpoints.  <em>Five String Serenade</em> was composed by Mazzy Star in her 1993 album, <em>So Tonight That I Might See</em>.  The original plan when I learned <em>Five String Serenade</em> 12 years ago was to sing to a girl after an evening picnic on a beach somewhere.  I never got the chance until recently, and now it&#8217;s been recorded, in my own version for you.  Funny how things never turn out quite like you plan.</p><p>Here&#8217;s to another 200 posts!  Thank you again!<span
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/04/09/silence-and-surprise-do-anything-to-survive/" target="_blank">Poker until 3am?</a> Good morning sunshine at 7:30am!  Actually, I wish I could sleep in until 9am, but I just can&#8217;t.  Part of the reason for my automatic clock is that I eat regularly, and therefore have the desire to use the restroom regularly.  Time to go, my body says and I get up.  Unconsciously, there must also be a strong feeling of guilt that I&#8217;m wasting my life away sleeping.</p><p><strong>7 HOURS A WEEK LEADS TO 30+ HOURS MORE A MONTH<span
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/03/09/the-mental-to-physical-connection-healthier-lifestyle/" target="_blank"> the mental and the physical</a> aspects of your life.  No surprise that interesting people have a plethora of interests.  These people also probably have a higher than normal level of commitment to their activities which make them that much more intriguing.</p><p><strong>THE TOP 5 &#8220;I CAN&#8217;T BELIEVE THEY&#8217;RE PAYING ME TO DO THIS!&#8221; JOBS<span
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2009/10/09/were-idiots-please-tell-us-a-flat-tax-is-not-fair/comment-page-1/#comments" target="_blank"> Institute a flat tax </a>so we no longer have to discriminate against hard working American citizens who&#8217;ve struggled to get to where they are!  I&#8217;d also reduce military spending to fund education.  It&#8217;d be awesome to take Airforce I and a bunch of family and friends to Hawaii like the President does every December.  Meanwhile, winning the Noble Peace Prize for being in office after one year ain&#8217;t too shabby either!</p><p><strong>THE NEXT TOP 5 JOBS THAT COME TO MIND<br
/> </strong></p><p><strong>6) Masseuse guinea pig.</strong> Rub me baby!</p><p><strong>7) Blogger. </strong> Financial Samurai is so fun, thinking about monetizing just isn&#8217;t on my mind for this site.  It&#8217;s just a blast learning from y&#8217;all meeting new people and gaining perspective.  If someone wants to pay to <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/advertise/" target="_blank">advertise</a>, great!  Someone else who needs the money more will receive it.  If not, that&#8217;s OK too.  The next project will come out by mid August, and I&#8217;m working hard behind the scenes to make sure it gets executed.</p><p><strong>8} Late Stage Film Critic (Academy Awards).</strong> I say late stage because I&#8217;m specifying the desire to critique only the best movies that have already passed the gauntlet!  You know, movies such as Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, The Usual Suspects, Hot Tub Time Machine and many more, which only a late stage film critic would get to review.  What joy!</p><p><strong>9) Travel writer and photographer. </strong>I don&#8217;t know how to take wonderful photographs like our friend <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/02/26/the-curse-of-making-too-much-money-and-not-pursuing-your-dreams/" target="_blank">Lyndon</a>, but I do love to travel and write on occasion.  Send me to Barcelona or Rio de Janeiro to write about their favorite foods and secret gems I&#8217;m there!  Put me on a train towards Amsterdam to write about whether locals really eat special brownies after lunch, no problem!</p><p><strong>10) English teacher in a non English speaking country. </strong>If we can&#8217;t communicate properly, we&#8217;re wasting our potential.  Given English continues to become the global language standard, teaching English to those who wish to speak English is very important.  Let me go see if the Maldives or somewhere in the South Pacific needs an instructor.</p><p><strong>CONCLUSION</strong></p><p>So there you have it.  I love travel, sports, eating, and writing.  Many of these jobs provide free lodging (White House anybody?) and food (4 Seasons) can literally be done for free.  When it comes <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/04/30/the-dark-side-of-early-retirement-risks-dangers/" target="_blank">time to retire at 45,</a> I&#8217;m prepared to incorporate these elements into the next stage of my life.  Perhaps I can be a travel writer in Bora Bora in the morning while teaching tennis in the afternoon?  Perhaps I can be a traveling food and luxury resort critic on my site, while letting the new spa staff give me full body massages before they work on paying customers.  At any rate, I look forward to early retirement by 45, because I&#8217;ve got a full docket of things planned!</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what are some of the jobs you&#8217;d be willing to do for free?</em></p><p>Keigu,</p><p>Sam @ Financial Samurai<em> &#8211; &#8220;Slicing Through Money&#8217;s Mysteries&#8221;</em></p><div
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/01/06/an-ambulance-screams-by-do-you-feel-happy-or-sad/" target="_blank">ambulance screams by</a>, white clouds part so the sun can beam through.  Thanks mom for being a white cloud and supporting me in so many ways.  Thanks dad for teaching me tennis.  Now go read the book already!</p><p><strong>Happy Mother&#8217;s Day Weekend Mom!</strong></p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what are you doing for Mother&#8217;s Day?  What is the one thing your mother taught you that you will always appreciate?  Can you choose to be a white cloud, or is it just all predetermined?  For those whose mothers are no longer here, may they be blessed forever.<br
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class="wp-caption-text">Samurai Nadal</p></div><p>Before every tennis match, I watch a short video on Youtube of a favorite tennis pro to get inspired.  All that goes through my mind are beautiful strokes and luscious sounding *thwacks* each time the ball leaves my strings.  I prepare my tennis bag with the right equipment: grip, Advil, Gatorade, a change of clothes, flip flops, hat, and sunglasses.  My outfit matches, down to my shoes and I say a little prayer.  Essentially, I go through a routine that any pro would go through, pretending to be one myself,  in order to get ready for battle.</p><p>Pretending you have arrived, so you can become is a way for us to get in the right frame of mind so we can tackle many of your challenges with full vigor.  If you are not mentally tough on the court, you will defeat yourself before even giving your opponent a chance to defeat you!  In essence, you are your own worst enemy if not properly trained.</p><p>Some may think that if you are a pretender, you have a risk of becoming delusional.  There&#8217;s no doubt we often over estimate our own abilities, however, I encourage all of us to increase the belief in ourselves.  If you don&#8217;t believe in yourself, nobody else will.</p><p><strong>PRO BLOGGER<span
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/05/03/where-did-all-the-time-go/" target="_blank">acoustic guitar</a> has given me more pleasure than I could have ever imagined.  With a beautiful cherry wood top, and a lemon oil smell emanating from the fret board, just touching the guitar brings an instant smile.  Unfortunately, I&#8217;m quite mediocre at musical instruments.  I&#8217;ve tried them all, including the violin, trumpet, saxophone, and drums and I&#8217;m not very good at any of them.</p><p>Despite my lack of musical talents, I still try to play the guitar until my finger tips turn purple from one too many slides.  I lock myself in the back room of my house pretending to be Jack Johnson playing his latest songs.  Whoever I pretend to be, I realize they are gifted because of practice.  And so, I practice and practice and sing as if no one is listening.</p><p>The guitar has been my outlet when my body is too sore from tennis and basketball.  After a 2 hour long singles match, my feet blister and my <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2009/12/22/playing-until-my-knees-swell-and-feet-bleed/" target="_blank">knees ache</a>.  It takes me at least three days to fully heal now from just one or two before.  It actually pains me more to have to rest and not play, but that&#8217;s where my guitar comes in.  When the time comes when my fingers are just too raw to continue, I&#8217;m ready to play sports again.</p><p><strong>CONCLUSION</strong></p><p>A positive attitude is tantamount towards progress.  When we were kids, we wore costumes and turned into our favorite superheroes and fairy tale characters.  Sometime during adulthood, we forget what it&#8217;s like to pretend.  That joyful feeling of being someone else eludes us as we grow up.  How sad.</p><p>If you&#8217;re going to do something, you might as well aspire to do your best.  Pretend you have arrived, so you can one day become.  I guarantee that if you do, you&#8217;ll have a grand old time in the process!</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what are your favorite hobbies you could do all day long?</em></p><p><em>Any strategies you employ to motivate yourself to do better?<br
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class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-6870" title="time-machine-wp" src="http://www.financialsamurai.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/time-machine-wp-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Looking back at history brings mixed emotions of happiness and fear.  How can it be that 20 years have passed since Pearl Jam was huge and mullets were still in?  It can&#8217;t be, can it?  The 90&#8242;s don&#8217;t seem too long ago, yet so much has happened since.</p><p>People say that we&#8217;ve just experienced the lost decade, given the lack of returns in the stock market.  I disagree completely.  What&#8217;s more important here is ironically<strong> nominal</strong> increases not &#8220;real&#8221;.  If you compare what you have now to what you had 10 years ago, I&#8217;m pretty sure you have lots more. Heck, some of you may have still been in school or had absolutely nothing but a tit to suckle.  You may have developed a business, or found someone over the past 10 years.  Rest assured you&#8217;ve made a lot of progress.</p><p>The one thing we have less of is time.  10 years past means 10 years less of life to go.  I think about what I&#8217;ve done and what I&#8217;m doing in 5 to 10 year blocks all the time.  If I plant the seed now, will the project be worth something in 5 years?  If I slave away at business school part-time, will I be able to leverage the degree and the relationships 10 years down the road?  If I master one guitar song a month, will I be able to play 6 albums worth of songs in 5 years?  <strong>The idea is to just start now and stay consistent</strong>.  You ignore the short-term tribulations and just focus long term.</p><p>The problem is that eventually, we all run out of rope.  That&#8217;s when we can only look back and hopefully smile at all the things we&#8217;ve accomplished.</p><p><strong>A SONG THAT CAPTURES THE QUESTION IN THE TITLE<span
id="more-6836"></span></strong></p><p><strong>&#8220;Name&#8221; by The Goo Goo Dolls<br
/> </strong></p><p><em>And even though the moment passed me by<br
/> I still can&#8217;t turn away<br
/> Cause all the dreams you never thought you&#8217;d lose<br
/> Got tossed along the way<br
/> And letters that you never meant to send<br
/> Get lost or thrown away</em></p><p><em>And now we&#8217;re grown up orphans<br
/> That never knew their names<br
/> We don&#8217;t belong to no one<br
/> That&#8217;s a shame<br
/> But if you could hide beside me<br
/> Maybe for a while<br
/> And I won&#8217;t tell no one your name</em></p><p><em> </em></p><p><em>Scars are souvenirs you never lose<br
/> The past is never far<br
/> Did you lose yourself somewhere out there<br
/> Did you get to be a star<br
/> And don&#8217;t it make you sad to know that life<br
/> Is more than who we are</em></p><p><em>You grew up way too fast<br
/> And now there&#8217;s nothing to believe<br
/> And reruns all become our history<br
/> A tired song keeps playing on a tired radio<br
/> And I won&#8217;t tell no one your name<br
/> And I won&#8217;t tell em your name</em></p><p><em>I think about you all the time<br
/> But I don&#8217;t need the same<br
/> It&#8217;s lonely where you are come back down<br
/> And I won&#8217;t tell em your name</em></p><p>If &#8220;Name&#8221; was introduced today, I&#8217;m sure it would be a smash hit.   Perhaps that&#8217;s the idea, to create something that&#8217;ll be great, no matter  what time period it&#8217;s introduced.</p><p>Click the below link if you dare hear my attempt to sing &#8220;Name&#8221; with Mags, my acoustic guitar.  Part of my <a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2009/12/31/samurai-predictions-and-resolutions-for-2010/" target="_blank">new year&#8217;s resolutions</a> is to play, sing, and record 10 favorite songs.  I&#8217;m not quitting my day job don&#8217;t worry, but here&#8217;s #1!  Thanks <a
href="http://www.mac-live.com/" target="_blank">Shane Mac</a> for suggesting what mic to buy, and inspiring me to go practice.  Mad respect for those trying to make it as musicians.</p><p><em><strong><a
href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/namegoogooharmonics.mp3">&#8220;Name&#8221; by The Goo Goo Dolls sung by Sam</a></strong></em></p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, what&#8217;s your song?  Any acoustic guitar players out there? </em></p><p><em>For those who are singers, musicians, and visual artists, how do you get over your fear of performance and display?</em></p><p><em>Any clever ways to make time seem like its slowing down?<br
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/> </strong></p><p><strong>1) Haven&#8217;t found the right job.</strong> The number one reason why people want to retire early is because people haven&#8217;t found a job that gives them enough fulfillment to do for the rest of their lives.  Nobody quits a job they like.  If there was a job paying $80,000 a year to hike in the mornings and get massages in the afternoon, I&#8217;d do that forever!</p><p><strong>2) Easier way out. </strong>People give up or are sub-optimal performers at what they are doing now.  Let&#8217;s say you are a research scientist who after 10 years never produces any relevant research, and finds no cures.  Instead of going on with your failure, you decide to give up, and get out of the game.  Early retirement is kind of like the cowards way of not having to be the best any more.  Some even liken it to suicide.</p><p><strong>3) People are lazy and want things now. </strong>Society has shifted our ideals from hard work and thinking long term, to instant gratification.  Nobody has the patience to work for decades before being eligible for a pension.  We all think we know more than we do, and deserve to be the rich boss now.  When we don&#8217;t get our way, we quit, rather than letting people know we couldn&#8217;t reach our potential.</p><p><strong>4) A feeling of hopelessness. </strong>During the downturn, a tremendous amount of people began writing about a location independent lifestyle, and breaking free from the 9-5 and really doing what you want.  It&#8217;s because of this downturn, that many people were displaced, and had nowhere to go.  If they did, perhaps they&#8217;d think differently.  In an economy where everybody is losing money left and right, what&#8217;s the point of working?</p><p><strong>5) Realization that time is precious. </strong>With the median lifespan hovering around 80 years old, you only have 15 years of retirement to enjoy your life if you retire at 65.  People in this camp have a heightened awareness of time, and therefore do everything possible to make sure they are financially stable sooner, rather than later.  I&#8217;m a strong believer in this thought process, but at the same time, I don&#8217;t want to cut short my potential.</p><p><strong>THE DANGERS OF EARLY RETIREMENT</strong></p><p><strong>1) Oops, you change your mind. </strong>Imagine retiring at 37 after 15 years of work after undergrad.  You spend the next 3 years traveling the world, living a leisure lifestyle and experiencing new things.  At age 40, you realize the reason why travel and play is so fun is because of work!  You have the urge to get back into the game, but <a
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href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/04/19/please-dont-have-children-if-you-cant-take-care-of-yourself-orphans/" target="_blank">raising a child may be too expensive an endeavor to undertake</a> as early retirees.  If you never wanted to start a family, chances are you haven&#8217;t been saving for a family.  Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re a woman who turns 35 and suddenly realizes the safety window for having a baby is closing rapidly.  May be tough to even get pregnant, let alone support a new born without the right support network.</p><p><strong>5) You lose your own self-respect, and the respect of others. </strong>Unless you&#8217;re out there saving the world,  you might start getting depressed you are contributing very little to society.   Others will stop respecting you because you aren&#8217;t doing anything productive either.  A great many rich early retiree friends from the Dotcom bubble have mentioned they wish they didn&#8217;t get rich so quicky work a little harder for their money.</p><p><strong>CAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO</strong></p><p>Early retirees will croon about how great their lifestyles are.  I&#8217;m sure, in some ways they are spot on.  But notice how they seldom write about the hardships they face.  They can&#8217;t, because it&#8217;s important they continue highlighting how awesome everything is, to <strong>justify their decision</strong> to no longer work.  Can you imagine spending 16 years going to school (grade school + four years of college) only to work for 10 years?  Some would surely say that&#8217;s a waste, would they not?</p><p>The worst that could happen is some aspiring scientist, musician, lawyer, or teacher decides to give up their careers because they believe traveling around the world on a shoe-string budget is so glamorous.  Years later, they realize their fingers don&#8217;t remember the notes anymore and the chemical formulas are one big haze.  Maybe they would have made it as a concert pianist, or helped discover the cure for seasonal allergies, ACHOO!  <strong>What a shame they never reach their full potential.</strong></p><p><strong>EARLY RETIREMENT IS SELFISH</strong></p><p>As I strive to fulfill my goal of retiring by 45, I&#8217;ve come to the realization there&#8217;s an unhealthy focus on self.  &#8220;<em>What do I need to amass to be comfortable?</em>&#8221; should be replaced with &#8220;<em>How much do I need to be comfortable while helping others?</em>&#8221;</p><p>It&#8217;s absolutely selfish for me to even consider working less than the number of years I went to school.  I think back upon my childhood years and how much effort my parents put into raising me.  My <strong>mother</strong> would spend hours a week sitting down with me after dinner to explain mathematical equations.  My <strong>father</strong> would read all my essays and fix all the punctuations and grammatical mistakes.  I would feel like a disgrace not to at least try and do great things.</p><p>45 is just an age goal.  If I haven&#8217;t achieved my potential by then, I don&#8217;t plan on retiring even if I have the money to do so.  The point of having an earlier-than-normal retirement goal is to help keep someone focused to achieve whatever it is they set out to achieve.  Like an exam that&#8217;s 3 months away, we don&#8217;t study until the week before.  Hence, better to believe the exam is only a week away so that we are better prepared.</p><p><strong>CONCLUSION</strong></p><p>Early retirees sometimes like to pity those who have to work.  Yet perhaps we should empathize with those who are lost and haven&#8217;t found something they truly love to do (point #1).  It&#8217;s impossible to all be great humanitarians working tirelessly until the age of 65.  It&#8217;s easier just to give up and tell the world how fabulous your life is, and how you&#8217;ve retired on your &#8220;own&#8221; terms.</p><p>As the economy recovers, perhaps we&#8217;ll be able to bring back our lifestyle design friends to their home countries to work again.  Our early retiree friends will stop fearing failure as employers open their arms wide open and allow them to succeed.  Entrepreneurial ideas flourish once again due to an abundance of capital.  The more the wealth gap widens, the more the early retiree crowd will want to get back to work, and realize their full potential.</p><p>There comes a point when working isn&#8217;t about money anymore since we have enough.  If we all reach this point, we&#8217;ll no longer be focusing just on ourselves, but on helping others as well.  We&#8217;ll be doing something we love, that provides a sense of purpose.  Here&#8217;s hoping we all get there!</p><p><em><strong>Readers</strong>, do you agree or disagree that early retirement is a selfish proposition?  Are we all just inherently selfish to begin with?<br
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