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Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« on: June 05, 2019, 03:28:13 PM »
 Random question: if you were to have two children and only two children, what would the combination of sex be in order of preference?

1) Boy / Girl
2) Girl / Girl
3) Boy / Boy

I was thinking it would be nice to have one of each, but then I was thinking it’s great to have the same sex for both children as they would have more in common and could play together for longer in their lifetimes.

 What are your thoughts on it if this question or asked to 1 million people? What would the percentage breakdown be?

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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2019, 06:20:00 PM »
Perhaps 70% or so would choose boy/girl to have one of each if they had the option to choose. From a parent perspective it's nice to have one of each although there are more synergies with boy/boy or girl/girl. It's funny how some families with 3+ kids end up with all boys or all girls. You just never know how things will turn out which makes it all the more an adventure.

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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #2 on: June 07, 2019, 02:29:03 PM »
We have two children (with no plans to have any more) and both of them are girls. They are eight and ten right now, and they spend a ton of time playing with each other.

Part of me was hoping to have one boy so I could connect on that level with one of them, but now that I have two girls, I wouldn't change a thing. My oldest daughter likes video games more than me and my youngest is into sports.

I have three full biological siblings that are girls and we are not close at all. From my end, the closer in age they are, I think the more likely they will be able to play with each other (regardless of age). But I do think the argument that having two kids with the same sex increases the chances they will have a closer bond.

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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2019, 04:42:34 AM »
We have a boy on the way right now.  When the second comes into the picture, I'm certain to want a girl.
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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #4 on: June 08, 2019, 05:59:05 AM »
We have a boy on the way right now.  When the second comes into the picture, I'm certain to want a girl.

Can you elaborate on what makes you so certain?
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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #5 on: June 08, 2019, 05:59:51 AM »
We have two children (with no plans to have any more) and both of them are girls. They are eight and ten right now, and they spend a ton of time playing with each other.

Part of me was hoping to have one boy so I could connect on that level with one of them, but now that I have two girls, I wouldn't change a thing. My oldest daughter likes video games more than me and my youngest is into sports.

I have three full biological siblings that are girls and we are not close at all. From my end, the closer in age they are, I think the more likely they will be able to play with each other (regardless of age). But I do think the argument that having two kids with the same sex increases the chances they will have a closer bond.

Thanks for sharing. What is the age diff between u and your sisters?

I’ve had a couple women tell me they wish they had older brothers.
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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #6 on: June 08, 2019, 06:23:36 AM »
My oldest sister is 4-years younger than me. Which actually doesn't sound that bad, but we weren't very close. I could be an exception though.

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Re: Two Children Combination Preferences By Sex
« Reply #7 on: June 08, 2019, 12:38:33 PM »
My oldest sister is 4-years younger than me. Which actually doesn't sound that bad, but we weren't very close. I could be an exception though.

I’m thinking 2-3 years is a better age gap to foster closeness given the overlap in school.
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