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Hi Folks,

I'm thinking of the following places to live abroad once my son turns 3:

* Amsterdam
* Taipei
* Beijing
* Barcelona

Ideally, I'd like him to learn Mandarin and/or Spanish in addition to English.

Any ideas for a family friend city that would be good for family? I also wonder what we will do for our visa situation. Hmmm.

Related: https://www.financialsamurai.com/ideas-providing-stimulating-childhood/

Sam
« Last Edit: October 29, 2018, 05:15:48 PM by Sam »
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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #1 on: October 29, 2018, 05:42:30 PM »
Panama would be my choice in a similar situation.

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #2 on: October 30, 2018, 09:06:58 PM »
Can you elaborate on why Panama? How is the education system there? Thx
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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2018, 10:51:52 AM »
I think this question could be better answered with more information provided. For example, what do you hope to do with your time? How important is weather? What size of a community would you want to be part of? Do you want to be in a place where you can cope on public transport with no need of a car?

I know personally I could not tolerate a Beijing winter as I found it too grey there. I think Amsterdam is a nice city but I would not like to live there. However I would live in other cities in Netherlands like Utrecht.  Also if considering Spain, I would probably consider southern Spain like Granada over Barcelona. There seems to be such a backlash against foreigners in Barcelona, and with their constant issue of Catalonia as a separate state I'm not sure it's something I would want to be part of.

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2018, 08:17:46 AM »
Ditto to a lot of @Toula's questions and assessments. My wife and I have been pondering over the same topic about living abroad, but to us issues like healthcare, foreigner treatment, taxes, and ease of living are very important to us. Ultimately, Club Med countries (Spain, Italy, Portugal, Greece, and the like) were stricken from our list due to "unsavory" stories heard from peers who lived in those areas around access to healthcare and general treatment from locals. If I were younger and my time-frame of living there was 1-3 years, I'd welcome the change. But we're near middle-aged and are set on a long term second home.

Amsterdam is a good option as its probably one of the most liberal cities in Europe and home to many expats from all over. Granted, you'll probably fare better in the Netherlands learning Dutch, and you'll have to contend with the fluctuating Euro vs the lower-valued Dollar. In my industry, I'd probably be okay regarding jobs, but I don't know that for certain. What does not appeal to me is the flat topography in the Netherlands and ongoing threat of flooding (which the Dutch are dealing with tremendously), but the country is not really known for its natural or architectural splendor versus elsewhere in Europe. And Amsterdam, to me, is kind of the New Orleans of Europe. It seems like an Ibiza party town w/o the beaches.

I don't know what your situation is regarding China as an option, but I'm assuming it's similar to mine. I am Korean-American and have tons of family still in South Korea. I would love to spend some time there, but South Korea does not check off a lot of criteria for me such as: historically aesthetic (in SK's defense, this is mostly due to its history of foreign invasion), overall appreciation for natural surroundings, non-humid climate. Also, even though I have a lot of family there and the number of expats living there is getting larger, I would still be treated as a "gyopo" (outsider), which is a vast topic of contention in SK. I don't have kids, but I definitely understand wanting your child to learn his background while at an impressionable age. To me, that trumps all.

My idyllic abroad situation would probably be the English/Scottish countryside, but the sterling is not in a reasonable place for me to consider that a reality versus my USD-padded portfolio. (Although, we're closer to currency parity than we have been in a while.) Plus, the areas that I would want to live are generally very "homegrown", so I'm not sure if the locals would roll out the welcome mat.

With all that said, we are narrowing our list down and have prioritized the following criteria: cost of living/ease of settling (banking, governmental processing, taxes), healthcare (same, if not better than the U.S.), climate, societal progressiveness, acceptance of foreigners. The issues around acceptance will be everywhere, but I find that the larger and more diverse/cosmopolitan the city - the more accepting. The smaller and/or more homogenized (Asia, Germany/Eastern Europe, Club Med) -- well you can probably figure out what to expect..
« Last Edit: November 01, 2018, 08:35:09 AM by genelee9 »

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2018, 05:52:04 AM »
Chile

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #6 on: November 09, 2018, 06:22:13 PM »
Why Chile?

What are the positive aspects...

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #7 on: November 09, 2018, 06:44:50 PM »
Weather, diversity, tolerance, food, culture, Mandarin and overall easy-going lifestyle are the most important things for me.

Maybe at the end of the day, San Francisco and Los Angeles I really the best places to be. I love New York City, but man it is like a pressure cooker and the weather for six months isn’t very good.

I agree about the weather and atmosphere in Beijing. It’s terrible. Maybe Taipei will be OK, but it’s not a really pretty city.
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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #8 on: November 13, 2018, 12:36:47 AM »
Mandarin speaking - Singapore/ Taiwan/ PRC/ HKG.  Singapore & HKG don't use Mandarin so much for day to day life, but there will be mandarin medium schools

Singapore is diverse/ tolerant and decent food.  Weather - well, as long as you don't mind no variety.  They also have an education visa that means that the guardian(s) of a kid in private school in Singapore can also live there.   No chance of getting your kid into a government school though - so your kid will be mixing with rich expat brats (from China if Mandarin medium school) mostly.

There is a decent startup/ fintech scene.

For China/ Taiwan/ HKG your best bet for a visa is education for yourselves too - sign up to a recognised course for a couple of years and get student visas.  Don't know about China/ Taiwan, but HK immigration does check attendance

« Last Edit: November 13, 2018, 12:45:18 AM by bob »

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #9 on: November 13, 2018, 06:14:00 AM »
Why Chile?

What are the positive aspects...

Its kinda like the US but in South America. I´ve been living here in Chile for almost 18 years ( was born in the US and moved when i was 5) and love it. People are super fiendly and the education system is good comparing to our neighbors. The economy is one of the strongest in South America with lots of opportunities and the culture is super western so its easy to adapt and life is super relaxing because cities are not that big. The food is awesome down here with lots of seafood,meat, veggies, fruts, etc (fruits and veggies are much cheaper than the US). It is expensive comparing to most South American countries but for people coming from the US it wont be that bad. Also by being one of the largest countries in the world you have different types of climates and landscapes along the country so depending of what you like you have it pretty much.For example a long Pacific coast just like California, to the east the Cordilera de los Andes and south Patagonia with the Antartida.
« Last Edit: November 13, 2018, 06:24:38 AM by Nicolas »

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #10 on: November 13, 2018, 01:51:41 PM »
Nicolas,
Thanks. Sounds like a great place minus the political nonsense going on here in the states. Might have to go check it out..

Curious? Is the political situation stable?

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« Reply #11 on: November 13, 2018, 03:38:31 PM »
Nicolas,
Thanks. Sounds like a great place minus the political nonsense going on here in the states. Might have to go check it out..

Curious? Is the political situation stable?
super stable

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #12 on: November 13, 2018, 07:00:21 PM »
Mandarin speaking - Singapore/ Taiwan/ PRC/ HKG.  Singapore & HKG don't use Mandarin so much for day to day life, but there will be mandarin medium schools

Singapore is diverse/ tolerant and decent food.  Weather - well, as long as you don't mind no variety.  They also have an education visa that means that the guardian(s) of a kid in private school in Singapore can also live there.   No chance of getting your kid into a government school though - so your kid will be mixing with rich expat brats (from China if Mandarin medium school) mostly.

There is a decent startup/ fintech scene.

For China/ Taiwan/ HKG your best bet for a visa is education for yourselves too - sign up to a recognised course for a couple of years and get student visas.  Don't know about China/ Taiwan, but HK immigration does check attendance

Good to know Bob. Thanks. How do you know all this? Did you live in one of these countries with family? If so, how was your experience?
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Sam

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #13 on: November 13, 2018, 11:39:57 PM »
Lived in both HK and SIN with my partner, no kids unfortunately.  Currently in Singapore

My definition of middle aged is when you prefer Singapore to HK...  it is cleaner, greener, more child friendly, "Asia 101", "Asia lite" but doesn't have the buzz of HK.


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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2018, 01:15:33 AM »
We are thinking San Sebastian.  Great family culture.  Beautiful beaches.  Close to other areas to explore like France/Portugal/Madrid/Barcelona.  Outstanding culinary scene. Great shopping.  I believe the Visa process is easier in Spain but need to do more research.  Plenty of English spoken but an opportunity to learn Askara (basque language though very tough) and Spanish.

We are taking a family trip to New Zealand also this Spring - but emigrating there I understand is pretty tough.  Looks beautiful though and we really want to get away from the gun culture here - we think its crazy.

Cheers!

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #15 on: November 18, 2018, 05:38:48 AM »
Lived in both HK and SIN with my partner, no kids unfortunately.  Currently in Singapore

My definition of middle aged is when you prefer Singapore to HK...  it is cleaner, greener, more child friendly, "Asia 101", "Asia lite" but doesn't have the buzz of HK.

I hear yah. But are you able to adjust to the humidity of Singapore? Damn, so hot and sticky lah!

What do you do in Singapore?
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« Reply #16 on: November 19, 2018, 04:16:24 AM »
Heh - I actually like the weather.  My wife struggles as she is from a cool part of Indonesia/ Canada. 

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #17 on: January 06, 2019, 06:54:51 PM »
What about India? Places like Bangalore, etc?

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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #18 on: January 08, 2019, 04:25:58 PM »
Nicolas,
Thanks. Sounds like a great place minus the political nonsense going on here in the states. Might have to go check it out..

Curious? Is the political situation stable?
super stable

I have to offer a third opinion on Chile.   It's on my short-list for sure.   After visiting a few times, its a beautiful country, a pretty well-planned economic system, including public healthcare, western style life, lots of recent development and friendly / family / friends oriented culture.   I say two thumbs up to Chile.


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Re: Favorite destinations for living abroad for several years with family?
« Reply #19 on: January 09, 2019, 08:09:06 AM »
What about India? Places like Bangalore, etc?

I've been to Mumbai, Bangalore, Hyderabad, and New Delhi.

Mumbai is OK... especially near Colaba. But I donno... it feels like chaos in India and foreigners stick out and constantly get taken advantage of (taxies for example). It is also very polluted.

Fun fact. I was in the Oberoi hotel 10 days before the terrorist siege in Mumbai.
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