Almost Burned Down My Parent’s Home Twice In One Week

I’m back in Honolulu for the winter holidays, visiting my parents, and I’ve been looking forward to this trip for months. Especially after spending about $41,000 remodeling and furnishing a neglected two-bedroom in-law unit attached to their home.

The goal was simple: test whether the in-law unit could comfortably house my wife, daughter, and son. My wife and daughter would each get one room, and my son would get the sofa bed in the living room. I would sleep in the main house, as I'd be the least disruptive to my parents. This arrangement would hopefully provide for maximum sleep comfort.

You see, our daughter isn’t a good sleeper. This past summer, my wife had to sleep with her in the main house for five weeks. Her sleep was disrupted almost every night as a result, and it was miserable.

Watching her go through that, I was determined to get the in-law unit finished before our next family trip. I wanted everyone to have their own space and get proper rest, a rare and undervalued commodity when traveling with kids, unless you can spend a fortune on vacation housing.

The In-Law Unit Almost Wasn’t Fully Ready To Go

The remodeling process was straightforward in theory, but execution was a different story.

Despite ordering furniture in July 2025, the dining set didn’t arrive until early November. The store repeatedly promised delivery, only to postpone it due to “warehouse issues.” After the second tease, I left a negative review. Miraculously, a manager finally stepped in, found the furniture, and rerouted it from another shipment.

Even longer than the furniture delay was getting the refrigerator and washer-dryer from Best Buy. Ordered in early July, they finally arrived only on November 28, a week after my sister and I surprised my dad for his 80th birthday. I honestly can’t imagine how Honolulu remodelers properly plan around such long delays.

Luckily, while I was in San Francisco, the fridge fit through one of the in-law unit’s doors, the water hookup was installed, and there was enough space for the door to open fully. Best Buy installers confirmed the washer and dryer were operational. My parents, who were hesitant to test new appliances, were satisfied that everything looked fine.

I was confident that as long as there were no leaks or defects, testing the appliances myself upon returning would be good.

House Almost Caught Fire

The washer ran smoothly, aside from a few soap suds bubbling up at the drain. I’m assuming it’s nothing serious as we did open the walls to change the leaky pipes this summer. We’ll just wash smaller loads and use less detergent next time.

Bubbly detergent rising up front laundry drain

Then came the dryer. My wife loaded it and set a quick 30-minute test run. After 17 minutes, a burnt plastic smell filled the room. She stopped the machine and called me over. Something was seriously wrong.

I went outside to check the vent. That’s when I found a half-burned, half-painted metal mesh ball plopped in front of the vent. I could smell burnt metal, paint, and plastic. My first thought was, “Well, that explains the smell.” Perhaps my aunt had shoved the ball in there to prevent geckos and bugs from coming inside.

We ran the dryer another 13 minutes to complete the cycle while airing out the laundry room. The burnt smell still lingered, but it didn't seem to get worse. Problem solved, or so I thought.

A ball of metal mesh with burnt paint on the ground right outside the vent
Found a ball of metal mesh with burnt paint on the ground right outside the vent

The Burning Smell Returns

The next day, we could still smell something burnt, so we stopped using the newly installed AC units in case they were the cause. I also pulled the fridge another 1.5 inches away from the wall just to be safe. It was a processor elimination. By the afternoon, the smell had gone away.

So two days after first testing the dryer, we decided to test it again. Unfortunately, the smell came back after just ~12 minutes this time. The vent was clear, but the burning plastic and metal smell returned. What in the world?

I then checked the dryer plug and it was burning hot to the touch. I turned off the dryer and waited 10 minutes, then unplugged it. One prong was burned, and the electrical receptacle itself remained hot.

I did some research online and realized what the problem was: the dryer was likely fine, but the receptacle and the wiring were compromised. Once a prong burns, the cord must also be replaced. Reusing it is a serious fire risk as a compromised prong gets hot faster.

The Electrician To The Rescue

I called an electrician for the morning after Christmas. He opened the receptacle and confirmed my suspicions: the positive wire was burned, likely from a loose screw over 55 years when the home was first built. Past leaks may have contributed.

The plug had been heating to 300+ degrees internally every time we ran the dryer, which could have easily ignited lint, drywall paper, or wood framing during a normal 60-minute cycle. That's how electrical fires start. First internally, then externally.

It turns out breakers trip on excess current, not excess heat. And because I had an old three-prong outlet without a dedicated ground wire, the dryer had no built-in protection to trip the breaker during a surge.

Burnt prong of a three-prong dryer cord after the second time running the dryer
Burnt prong and melted plastic at the base after the second time running the dryer

The Fix

The electrician initially brought a three-prong cord he bought on the way from Home Depot, matching the existing outlet. After discovering four wires in the box, I gave the go ahead to upgrade to a four-prong receptacle, which is now standard code and includes a dedicated ground wire.

He picked up a new cord and receptacle from a local hardware store and installed them in about 1.5 hours. I turned on the breaker, watched the dryer for 20 minutes, and the plug stayed cool. No burning smell, no overheating, nothing. Thank goodness!

I couldn’t believe it. I almost burned down my parents’ house twice in one week.

If a fire had started, my parents might not have known for 10 to 20 minutes, giving it time to spread, since they live in the main house. By the time they smelled smoke, they would have had to scramble to figure out what to do. Even if they were calm enough to call 911, it might be another 5-10 minutes before a fire truck would come.

Luckily, we were home both times and shut off the dryer as soon as we noticed the smell. Normally, we would let the dryer run and head to the beach for a couple of hours before lunch. But not this time.

The total cost to fix the issue was $266, which felt like a win since I had been guesstimating $400 to $500 based on San Francisco prices. I paid the electrician via Venmo with my poker winnings. Thank you pocket kings for holding up last week against a nut flush draw!

Lessons Learned About Home Appliance Fire Prevention

  1. Check wiring before installing a new appliance. Make sure the receptacle and the home's total amperage can handle the load. Dryers, space heaters, hot tubs, and ovens draw the most electricity, while microwaves and hair dryers use high power only briefly. If you're buying the house, turn on all these appliances at the same time to see if any breakers trip.
  2. Upgrade old outlets. Replace three-prong outlets with four-prong outlets wherever possible. The dedicated ground wire provides a low-resistance path during faults and helps the breaker trip faster.
  3. Inspect internal wiring. Even if an appliance is new, a burned wire inside the receptacle or a loose connection can turn it into a serious fire hazard.
  4. Don't leave washers or dryers unattended. Washers can overflow if filters aren’t installed correctly. Lint can plug the sink drain and also cause the dirty water to overflow. Dryers can overheat if wiring or cords are compromised. One small oversight can destroy hours of work or thousands of dollars in remodeling.
  5. Consider replacing old wiring. If your home still has knob-and-tube wiring, upgrading to modern Romex wiring dramatically improves safety. Home insurance companies likely require this upgrade as well.
  6. Have a fire extinguisher handy. Get at least one ABC fire extinguisher (rated for electrical, ordinary combustibles, and flammable liquids). Size: 5 lb minimum. Don’t forget to test your fire alarms too.
  7. Unplug everything before leaving for a trip. Although you should have proper breakers in place, if you plan to leave your house unattended for more than several days, you might as well unplug all appliances. The same goes for turning off the main water line. For rentals, view your tenants as guardians of your properties, and ask them to do the same.

I’m incredibly thankful we didn’t leave the dryer running unattended for a normal 60-75-minute cycle. If we had, the $41,000 remodel could have gone up in smoke, and I would have had to start over and spend even more money. Beyond the financial loss, I would have felt completely defeated and ashamed if a fire had started.

All I wanted was to make the in-law unit a livable space for my parents or my family. To have caused a fire despite my best intentions would have been devastating, especially if it caused injury or worse. Please know the details of your home insurance policy before a fire occurs.

Bigger Picture Takeaways

This experience reminded me of something I think about investing: preparation matters, small mistakes compound, and vigilance saves you from catastrophic losses that can take years to recover from. Just like watching your portfolio or reviewing your financial allocations, checking your house’s wiring and testing appliances prevents disaster.

Appliances are like investments. You can have the best intentions and equipment to improve the quality of your life, but if the infrastructure behind them is flawed, your risk is far higher than you realize. Stay on top of your home maintenance like you do your investments.

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Reader Questions

  • Have you ever experienced a near-miss with household appliances or wiring? How did you respond?
  • If you have an older home, have you upgraded three-prong outlets or knob-and-tube wiring to modern standards?
  • What are some other things we should look out for and do to help prevent a fire at home?

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After nearly losing $41,000 in a remodel and imagining a fire destroying everything, I was reminded how stressful managing property can be. Repairs, maintenance, and constant oversight can quickly take over your life.

That is why I turned to passive real estate investing with Fundrise. You get the benefits of real estate, including income, potential appreciation, and diversification, without worrying about leaky faucets, loose electrical wiring, or tenant issues. Fundrise handles the work so you do not have to.

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Dom
Dom
1 month ago

Since you have older parents I suggest buying them a couple of fire blankets for their kitchens (main home and guest house). My elderly mom had a grease fire and although her kitchen has an extinguisher, it is difficult for her to pull the pin and squeeze the handle. She opened and threw the fire blanket I had hung on the wall near the range on the fire and it smothered the fire immediately.

Aly
Aly
1 month ago

Pediatric RN x 20 years here. I generally try not to offer unsolicited advice, but if it hasn’t been done already, you may want to have your daughter evaluated for obstructive sleep apnea. This is a common, treatable, and often overlooked problem in kids who are poor sleepers. There could be an issue with her tonsils and adenoids. Or something causing chronic nasal congestion while sleeping that contributes to OSA. This evaluation is best done by a pediatric otolaryngologist. Some airway-focused pediatric dentists can also evaluate. As is true in all professional fields, some individuals are better than others, so ask around and do a bit of your own research first.

The Don
The Don
1 month ago

Great article glad you bought this before a major disaster.
I agree with you owning real estate is very similar to investing in the market, as Warren Buffet said “first rule in investing is don’t loose money”. If you don’t upgrade basic wiring and plumbing after 50 to 60 years your asking for a trouble. I don’t care how good you think your insurance is, if you have a major disaster your insurance will not cover the whole issue. I’ve never meet any one yet that has beat the insurance company at their game.

Here is a few more thoughts on preventative maintenance.

  1. twice a year turn off and turn back on all your emergency shut off valves for toilets , sinks, washers, dishwasher, main water valve, etc. this will keep those valves in working order, someday your going to need them.
  2. Have your dryer vent cleaned by a pro once a year. This is another place we’re dryer fires usually start. Also if anyone is looking for a good side gig these guys get paid $120 to $300 per call. Service usually takes less then an hour.
  3. have your roof inspected by a well trusted professional roofer every 3 to 5 years. They well spot problems well before they become issues. Have them check your gutters and downspouts too.
letro
letro
1 month ago

From my Wife the OBGYN put magnesium lotion on your daughters legs before sleep. This special time will sooth child. Mg has many benefits such as calm nervous system and restless legs.

I was a Master Plumber as young man always call the Master electrician.
Make sure the washer hose is not in the trap water or a siphon will start. However looks like the installer secured the drain hose properly. Install a new vent pipe & dryer vent outside.PS no screws on thru pipe. lowes.com/pd/IMPERIAL-4-in-Dia-Galvanized-Steel-R2-Exhaust-Dryer-Vent-Hood/1002623654

Yes after seven months in Hawaii the Honda battery was dead. Naturally I parked the car in front of garage so I could not use the Chrysler 300S in garage. The year before the Chrysler 300s battery was dead after first short trip. Another old guy jumped the car and dropped off for new battery & systems check. Welcome back to reality. Small problems are always welcome LOL. 35 years chief electric system chemist and large power transformer SME. Always call Master electrician !
Keep SMiling

pat
pat
1 month ago

For the very reason you experienced I have upgraded the entire ungrounded wiring & service panels in many of the older homes we bought. Older service panels are rife with bus bar corrosion.
The current 1930 era home we are gutting is a mess of buried knob&tube wiring that others have hooked into, then hid the ‘wire nut connection’ behind walls or buried them under old flamable attic insulation. The flash burns I see in the original metal junction boxes has amazed me that a fire had not yet destroyed the homes.

Your dryer electrical issue is another reason I put smoke/CO detectors in the laundry areas. As an added precaution I have also plumbed in city water fed fire sprinkler heads in most of our rental property kitchens, laundry rooms & furnance/HW tank rooms. Easy to do when your gutting to the studs.
I also eliminate the older gravity drafted NG HW tanks to avoid CO issue when tenants hit the exhaust vents with large items that should not be stored anywhere near a HW tank. The latter has happened twice necessitating an evacuation mid winter. I have since installed on-demand systems in all our rental properties.

On your vehicle of electrical Gremlins, I had a Town Car that developed the same issue & I immediately dumped it !!!

Slacker
Slacker
1 month ago

Thanks for this practical and helpful post.

TW
TW
1 month ago

Yikes! Glad everything worked out and everyone is safe. We just bought a house that was built in 1967. The inspection report revealed that none of the exterior electrical outlets were up to code with GFCI circuits. We called that out (among a few other issues) and asked for a $4,000 seller’s credit (to cover that and all of the other issues). We settled on $2,500 which will cover the most significant issues. A couple of thoughts: not one owner in almost 50 years thought to upgrade the exterior outlets (only about a $750 fix). Our offer was a full price offer with 50% down; the house was well-priced and on the market for 6 hours. We close tomorrow (12/30). In future transactions, I’ll definitely leverage the inspection to potentially knock a few thousand dollars off rather than instinctively offer 5-10% off the ask and risk losing the deal (assuming the house is right at the right price).What say you Sam?

Jamie
Jamie
1 month ago

Oh man what a stressful situation. Glad you were able to get it fixed. Any kind of electronics can be dangerous. My mother almost caught her house on fire when a power strip started smoking. Then the same thing happened to a friend of mine. Even though cheap electronics are tempting, I try to buy reliable name brands now to reduce the risk of fire. And every time I travel away I try to unplug everything that’s non essential for safety.

Rudy R
Rudy R
1 month ago

Breakers also can go bad over time. Had a dryer that was not drying as well as it used to. Electrician told me to check the plug. Sure enough, one side of the 220v plug was zero. Replaced the breaker and back in business. Much less expensive than a new dryer.

Last edited 1 month ago by Rudy R
KO
KO
1 month ago
Reply to  Rudy R

Problems in the circuit breaker panel are more common than people realize, and it is easy to overlook because, who ever looks at the panel? The circuit breakers connect to a power bus bar with a clamp connection and that connection can get loose, weak and corroded just like a loose terminal screw in an outlet box. Then it gets hot and sparks. And, this is most common with high current breakers…like the ones used by an oven or dryer. I have seen it happen. Pull the breaker and look for scorching on the terminal.

Then there are the simply bad panel designs like Federal Pacific breaker boxes that need to be replaced ASAP.

Christine
Christine
1 month ago

We had friends who sold their home, they hired movers to pack up everything. The movers threw their drawer contents into a box- those contents included lithium batteries which caused a whole house fire within minutes! The new buyers backed out of the sale, what an insurance nightmare needless to say. Watch what you put in your drawers is the moral of the story.

Christine
Christine
1 month ago

No, the buyers did not close yet so they walked away. All around nightmare. It was the day before closing the fire started. Bad luck!

letro
letro
1 month ago

house

letro
letro
1 month ago
Reply to  Christine

Yes lithium batteries require proper packaging always save the package from purchase. Just ponder lithium batteries in your car in your garage. Then ponder a gas station on every corner. The realize the electric system was never designed for evs.