Since the very beginning of Financial Samurai, I've sought to delve into the psychology of wealth by focusing on stories about wealth and moving beyond numbers. My favorite is, “The Curse Of Making Too Much Money And Not Pursuing Your Dreams“. It's infinitely more interesting to learn about what makes people happy, and what wealth means to everyone.
Most of us are born into relative wealth given America, Australia, and the United Kingdom, are where most of you readers hail from. There are hundreds of millions more people born into relative poverty and can't get out. Go anywhere in India for a couple weeks and it will change your appreciation of what you have, forever. You'll probably no longer complain about why you don't make X, and you'll likely lose some weight as well upon realization of so much waste.
The psychology of wealth is more than just having a net worth of $1 million dollars by the time you retire. That's pretty straight forward if you have your head on straight the day you graduate from college. The psychology of wealth is about being wealthy, no matter how much money you have. It's about “understanding your relationship with money and achieving prosperity,” as Dr. Richards writes.
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF WEALTH REVIEW
* The Beginning: To understand what we have, we must understand how far we've come. Dr. Richards talks about how we define wealth, the evolution of wealth, and finding your dreams in the first few chapters. Dr. Richard's great-great grandparents were slaves and were set free by the Emancipation Proclamation as young adults. From there, they managed to purchase 41 acres of property in Tennessee to begin their wealth-building journey. The idea is to discovery our past and appreciate it for all its worth so we can appreciate how much more we have now.
* The Importance Of Self-Esteem: Self-esteem is probably the most important aspect in building wealth and appreciating wealth in my opinion. It's why I highlight this particular topic here. If you do not believe in yourself, nobody else will. If I do not believe I will vanquish my opponent on the tennis court, then I will be in a compromised position and probably lose. The great news is that even if you are not born with a high amount of self-esteem, it can be built, one step at a time through continuous positive experiences.
“It is not possible to grant another person an authentic and durable sense of self-esteem-it is a quality that we gain through our own experiences.” says Robert Reasoner, past president of the National Association of Self-Esteem.
Start making a conscious habit of replacing negative language with positive language while thinking and speaking about ourselves and others. It really is about taking small steps to build your self-worth, which can be synonymous with self-esteem. Learn from your mistakes. Be open to other points of view. Trust your judgement. Be proactive. Don't fear change. Feel grateful for what you have and so forth.
* “Value Is What You Get, Price Is What You Pay”: This is a famous saying from Warren Buffett which is used by Dr. Richards to discuss what is important to us. What makes me happy are cheap old toys from my childhood and spending time with loved ones. Yes, a Lamborghini Gallardo would make me happy for several months, but I'm sure that thrill will fade. I find tremendous value in simple things and don't require expensive hobbies at all to make me happy. The goal is to list some things that you find tremendous value in, and highlight the various prices you've paid and would be willing to pay.
* The Power Of Giving Back: Some of us are more generous than others and I've long struggled with the feeling of not feeling generous enough. I remember when I was in college, I gave $1,000 of the $3,000 total I had to my old baby sitter of 10 years because she had just given birth to her daughter. It made me feel so happy. Once I graduated, and began working like a slave, I stopped giving as much money and time, partly b/c I was always so tired, and partly b/c I felt I worked so hard for my money at 22-23 years old. A $1,000 dollars now was worth much more than a $1,000, and I couldn't just give it away.
Over the years, I've volunteered more of my time, and given away more of my money again. The power of giving back creates a tremendous amount of wealth, and needs to continue. The book talks about this power of helping others, and at the Yakezie Network's core, helping others is what it's all about. Hopefully you folks can participate in the Yakezie Writing Contest that will be launched end of this April.
CONCLUSION – A GREAT READ
The Psychology of Wealth is an excellent book that came at a very important time in my life. I'm trying hard to extricate myself away from “the rat race” and live a more balanced lifestyle that isn't focused just about money. I've written about lifestyle balance ever since I first published my About Page three years ago, and I'm still trying to get there.
If you feel consumed by money, or feel you don't have enough money, you most definitely should read The Psychology Of Wealth. The book will help change your relationship with money and help you appreciate more of what you have. As Dr. Richards writes, “The psychology of wealth means taking responsibility for one's own decisions and nurturing the qualities and attitudes within ourselves that will create a prosperous life.”
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Book Details: Hard copy, 241 pages. McGraw-Hill publisher. $26 retail.