To get rich, you need to adopt an abundance mindset. There is no monopoly on being rich!
I'd like to think most of you come here because you have a desire to improve your finances, hang out and connect with like-minded folks, and get entertained. Despite some rather highly opinionated posts, there's not a lot of nasty comments at all.
I am a perennial optimist. Sprained ankle? Thank goodness it's not broken! Ever since I was about 12 years old, I knew I did not want to be poor. Seeing ubiquitous poverty growing up in third world countries makes me appreciate how lucky we are to live in America.
It was in the 9th grade when a senior told me to stop messing around if I wanted to have a better life. And it was the first month of work that I told myself if I could just survive these brutal 5:30am-7:30pm+ workdays for the next 10 years, that I would be rich.
Thirteen years later, work is but an option. The biggest irony is that in order to stop caring about money, you first have to care a great deal about money. I could have worked for many more years and saved many more dollars, but money is no longer a driving force. I'd much rather have the freedom to do what I want.
It's been three and a half years since I first started this blog and I've encountered a plethora of different attitudes about wealth. Some people believe it's their destiny to remain poor while others have an unwavering desire to make it big beyond their wildest dreams. If you believe you will always be poor, then that is what you will be. If you believe you deserve to be wealthy, you have an infinitely higher chance of succeeding.
There is no monopoly on being rich. You don't have to be angry at others who have more. You've just got to be confident that you belong and survive long enough to succeed.
“Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not all right, then it is not yet the end.” – Unknown
Photo: Bay Bridge Sunset, SD.