If I wasn’t whipped so hard during my first job out of college, I never would have saved over 50% of my after-tax income every year for 13 years in a row. I probably would’ve blown the majority of my income on fancy cars, late nights at the clubs with bottle service, and frequent weekend trips to Atlantic City or Vegas.
At age 22, I already had the penchant for the good life having finally landed a plum job in finance. Going from making hardly anything to making a tidy sum very quickly is a very dangerous situation (think lottery winners).
When your peers are recklessly spending money every weekend, it’s very hard not to follow. But I didn’t follow because of the jobs I once had.
Getting in at 5:30am and often leaving after 8pm was NO FUN. I gained 15 pounds, was constantly sick, and became a stress case. I also worked most weekends for the first two years. I was a dumbass who needed to learn more about finance if I was to sound remotely intelligent with clients.
Each minute I worked past the 12 hour mark was a reminder to keep on saving money. There was no way I could last for more than three years in this cutthroat business I remember telling myself.
Before the post college lashes, there were three other jobs that helped me prepare for the real world. I hope to never do any of these jobs again, but never say never when you’re unemployed. What I realize today is that adversity builds character.
The following three jobs helped prepare me to navigate workplace politics, resolve conflicts with employees, endure marathon work hours, produce consistent work and appreciate the value of a hard earned dollar.
CRAPTASTIC JOBS THAT CHANGED MY LIFE FOR THE BETTER
My parents were squarely middle class. We lived in a cozy three bedroom townhouse while I was in high school and we rocked a seven year old Toyota Camry which my father bought second hand. I think I got $10-$15 a week in allowance or something, but I can’t remember because it wasn’t enough to buy anything memorable.
When you have no money, receiving any amount of money is awesome. I’d always look forward to my birthday or Christmas because my grandparents would always be so kind as to send me some crispy cash. I was embarrassed to ask my parents for money, so I rarely ever did except for the time when I wanted to upgrade my 386 computer.
As a freshman in high school I needed money because I liked this girl. I wanted to have at least $30 bucks so I could take her out for dinner and a movie. I decided to get a job. Oh, the things you do for love!
Three Jobs I Will Cherish Forever
1) Greasy Burger Flipper.
Getting up at 5:30am on a Saturday as a high school student is probably one of the least enjoyable things to do. I walked five blocks in the dark to McDonald’s so I could open up shop by 6am. There was something very calming about walking the misty suburban streets with nobody around. Perhaps I enjoyed the seven minutes of quiet so much because I knew chaos was about to ensue.
My McDonald’s colleagues were fantastic. A veteran colleague named Pedro became my mentor, teaching me how to make Egg McMuffins, clean the grill, work the cash register, and assemble Big Macs. Pedro also gave me the inside scoop about work place politics by telling me who to avoid and how to please our over eager manager.
Over time I became adept at cracking eggs with one hand and assembling the best quarter pounders with cheese. I was proud of how far I came and made food production a game so I’d forget I was only making $3.5-$4.25 an hour. I also reminded myself about the great benefit of all you can eat apple pies. Yum!
Things were going well until one day, the manager started yelling at us for speaking Spanish to each other at the cash register. “How many times do I have to tell you to stop speaking Spanish in front of the customers?!” he raged. “They’ll think you’re speaking bad about them!” It wasn’t just speaking Spanish at the cash register, but even while we were making apple pies in the back, minding our own business. He’d dish out racial stereotypes which left us dumbfounded.
We despised him for telling us what we could and could not say. Now that I write this post, a part of me wants to see if he’s still a manager at a McDonald’s so I can go buy the particular restaurant and fire his ass. We felt like prisoners making $20-$30 a day. I swore I would never return to fast food again.
Takeaways:
* There is magic to getting up early.
* The physical heat of a blazing grill doesn’t get easier to endure over time.
* Punctuality breeds credibility.
* Consistent production leads to progress.
* Racism, subtle or direct feels worse in a work setting because of the needed money.
* Following orders is necessary when you’re at the bottom of the totem pole.
* Appreciate every single person who decides to take a minimum wage fast food job rather than complain.
* Why I love this Yakezie Writing Contest essay so much: El Aguacate.
2) Envelop stuffer.
Despite the unfun times at McDonald’s, I became enthralled with being able to make my own money and not depend on my parents. I decided to apply to a temp agency to see if I could land myself a more work friendly office job. Computers were my forte and I could also type well over 120 words a minute by sophomore year.
After only about a week of waiting, I was deployed to my first office job. Sweet! Finally, I got to go to an environment where there’s no grease splashing all over the place and impatient customers waiting in line for their heart attack sandos.
It was a Saturday morning when I arrived at the company at 8am. The place was desserted except for a grumpy worker whose task was to let me in and tell me what to do.
The worker escorted me into conference room where I saw a mountain of envelopes and papers. My job was to spend the next eight hours folding papers, stuffing envelopes, and sealing envelopes. She brought me a radio to keep me company and told me she’d check back in four hours for lunch.
For the first hour I didn’t mind because I was now making $5 an hour, equivalent to a 30% raise! I didn’t have to look out for a Spanish language hating manager either.
By the third hour I was bored out of my mind. The woman came back after two hours to inspect my work. Instead of saying “great job,” she scolded me for not making perfect folds and told me to redo over 200 stuffed envelopes!
F*CK! I did what I was told and meticulously refolded every single paper and stuffed them right back in. I ended up stuffing envelopes for three days before the task was done. Never again! At least I was $120 richer.
Takeaways:
* Working in solitude is terrible.
* How to forge through nonstop mindless work.
* Attention to detail is critical.
* Doing things right the first time is more important than doing things quickly.
* Realizing freedom is better than having lots of money.
3) Mover.
My final craptastic job was moving hundreds of boxes for a small family business to a bigger space office space. My buddy asked if I wanted to join him for a weekend and I said sure. Anything was better than sitting in a dark room alone stuffing envelopes!
My friend was a pretty big guy for a 16 year old at 6′ 3″ and 200 lbs. He could bench 350 pounds without a problem. Here I was five inches shorter, 40 lbs lighter, and benching 205 lbs on my best day, trying to hoist the same amount of boxes.
After about four hours of moving I felt my lower back give out so I decided to lay on the floor and stretch. The lower back is crucial for serving, and I wanted to prevent potential long term injury as a starter on the varsity tennis team.
My buddy was still going strong so he started making fun of me for “sleeping on the job.” Sleep? Damn, that’s all I wanted to do. Sleep on a nice massage table and have a lovely lady knead out my knots!
I could barely get out of bed the next day. There were aching muscles I didn’t even know I had. I walked around the house hunchbacked like an 80 year old man wondering whether to return.
I wasn’t going to let my buddy or my employer down so I got back to work at 8am on a Sunday and we moved boxes until 6pm. Our employers each gave us a $100 dollar bill and thanked us for our time. I swore never to move anything for a living again.
Takeaways:
* Pain can be overcome through the mind.
* To always follow through on a commitment.
* Cash is a nice way to get paid.
* Manual labor is brutal and not for me.
* Everything is relative. I’d rather stuff envelopes with a friend.
* If only I could find a job that used my mind more.
* A body breaks down, but the mind can last for a much longer time.
After doing so much manual labor, I became determined to invest my money in passive income investments. I wanted my money producing income passively so I wouldn’t have to lift another heavy box again!
WORKING TOUGH JOBS BUILDS CHARACTER
Whenever I got yelled at by a client or boss or had to travel thousands of miles for a one hour long meeting, I’d remember back to my high school days and smile.
I had this immense fear that if I did not do well in school, I would end up flipping burgers in the morning, stuffing envelopes in the afternoon, and moving boxes at night for a living. Thanks to fear, I studied my heart out so I could at least have a chance at a better life.
So many of my colleagues from Wall Street quit after two or three years because they couldn’t take the long hours and immense pressure. Many went complete 180s by joining non-profits, the government, or going back to school in fields totally unrelated to finance. Good for them.
I probably would have been out by age 25 if it wasn’t for my job experiences in high school and a move to the more balanced city of San Francisco after my second year.
Nowadays, writing three to four times a week online is a piece of cake compared to all jobs I’ve held prior. Whenever I start to feel burnt out or sorry for myself, I laugh at how silly I am and think, “How the hell can you get burnt out sitting in the hot tub writing a post? Don’t you remember your past? Stop complaining!” I sometimes get lazy and need all the motivation I can get to carry on.
I encourage everyone to work a minimum wage job growing up or find a job you might feel is beneath you at some point in your life. Once you experience craptasticity, you will not only appreciate everyone who currently works such jobs, you’ll also become much more appreciative of what you have.
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When I graduated from high school I had no money for college. It was a big secret how much money my dad made. So, I couldn’t even apply for financial aid.
I took a gap year and got a job to save up for college. I was hired on at the local meat packing plant . I spent the first week putting cans of spam in cardboard boxes. It was boring . But, the pay was good. When Friday came I was told I was layed off. I was to report to the personell office Monday morning to be reassigned. Monday afternoon I reported to my new assignment in the hog kill depertment. I never “stuck pigs”. But, I did spend many a ten hour shift splitting hog skulls so the next worker on the line could remove the brains. Until, the machine malfunctioned one night and came down on my hand. 25 stitches, and a month later I was back on the job. This time ruffling guts. Chitterlings are the large intestine of a hog that has been flushed out and split open. It was my job to tear apart the membranes that kept them in a spiral so they could be fed onto a machine that flushed them. The machine was directly behind my back. Sometimes the water pressure would build up in the gut and the content would squirt. (It was the crappyest job ever). But, it was a union shop and the pay was good. About $50,000 A year in today’s dollars.
During this time I met someone that would become my girlfriend. She was in her junior year in the local liberal arts college. We dated dated during that year and for a few months after I left for the state university where I was majoring in Engineering. This would lead to a job much better than the packing plant. After several months away I realized all we had in common was proximity and I ended it. Several months after that she called me to say she would be in town and could we meet. One thing led to another and we spent the night together. A few weeks later she called to say she we pregnant. So, I did the right thing. I dropped out of college, got married, and put the last of my college money down on a house.
When the baby arrived, my mother too one look and the first words out of us mouth were “she doesn’t look like anyone in our family” . A paternity test proved mom was right. I realized my absence would do Las harm than my anger. So, I got a divorce and left. It took my another five years to sort out everything and get back to college.
What I learned from those experiences is that looking too prosperous compared to the people around you can put you at risk. These days I don’t put my assets on display. I make it a point to appear less well of that those I associate with while my assets are quietly building up out of sight.
I’ve only had 2 paying jobs in my entire life thus far. The first lasted only about 3 months working in a library which ended up firing me, that was my first job, I was about 20 years old, just a petty student worker. My 2nd job was when I was away at college, I worked for a short time as an envelope stuffer and a nice handwriting person, sending thank you letters on behalf of a financial organization. For every 600 handwritten letters I would be paid 70 dollars. I had to walk several miles to deliver the letters on foot.
So far that was the worst job, I hated the experience so much I don’t even bother putting it on my resume as work experience, I feel like it doesn’t count, I also feel like they weren’t paying me enough for that. That was about 4 almost 5 years ago and I have not worked since. However, the trouble now is that my lack of experience pretty much guarantees that I will have crap jobs that barely pay anything for who knows how long. Although, your post did give me a sliver of hope that things will even out in the future with enough perseverance.
Things will get better. Do not give up. What have you been up to for the past 4-5 years and how old are you now?
I started out my job experience at 16 working in a restaurant washing dishes. Now with more than 8 years experience, I am still involved in the restaurant and hospitality industry. I worked my way up from that position to a head cook, supervisor, and eventually kitchen chef. The general public has little respect for these jobs however many of them, as you have pointed out, build incredible workmanship, consistency and the ability to handle just about anything. Want a hard worker? I’ll take someone that can handle getting slammed on a lunch rush any day!
The major drawback at this point is that these entry level positions are almost exclusively set at minimum wage. Of course, the opportunities to move up are available. Paying attention to a superior or other position enough and waiting for an opportunity or moving elsewhere is accomplish-able. Experience often trumps education in this industry.
I like manual labor jobs because they keep me humble. I never worked fast food, but I did work in restaurants and that was tough. Never have I been yelled at so much in my life! But it made me tough, when the chef would yell at me for seating someone too quickly, I’d give my response. looking straight at him. I learned not to worry if he was “mad” at me, because he was always pissed at everyone. Chefs are moody! I also liked your line “following through on a commitment” This has been a huge deal for me. I started seeing much better results in life when I started following through on all my commitments, not just the ones I liked.
Hey there! Good to hear from ya. Been a while. That’s funny how the manager was always pissed. Chefs are moody indeed!
I’m 69 and my brother and I agreed to cut thorny bushes on both sides of a drive way 800 feet long for $5.00 took 2 days we wanted to quit and give the money back after being stung several times, the owner said we weren’t good workers and chalanged us to finish the job we did but learned not to be to eager to jump on a job until we were sure what was involved. I’ve had several yucky jobs but always worked to better myself, I now for several years enjoy retirment.
Haha man, this post just takes me back to the crap jobs I’ve worked in the past too. But I like the way you gave them a twist and used that experience you learned to your advantage. When I really think about it, those jobs really did turn me into a better and more developed person whether it was the different personalities I dealt with or being able to think on your feet in an instant. Even the job I have now, I have to motivate myself EXTRA hard just to go in cause I hate it that much but the skillset I have learned from this job is something I cannot put a price tag on.
Thanks for the insight my friend, putting it in a different perspective really changed my view on those jobs I had.
This is insane but I’ve had a couple of crazy under the table work:
1) 6th grade-8th grade – worked at a hanger factory hooking the metal rod to the plastic part of a hanger. Usually this was just the on the weekends, but I had to get up before the crack of dawn, about 3 or 4am. The factory was also very dusty so by the end of the day, if I blew my nose, I would just see dust in the tissue. Looking around and seeing all the other immigrant workers hustling, I felt a great deal of motivation to study hard in school to avoid the same fate. The most suffocating thing is rushing through our “break”– we were allowed half an hour but of course the immigrants would take 10 minutes and my mom would yell at me I was eating too slow. I got paid about 5.25/hr but that was a lot of money for a 12 yo. My parents let me keep my earnings and I saved most of it in a teddy bear piggy bank. At some point, I was actually loaning money to my parents so in that way I learned just how powerful savings and in turn, having a big cash balance, was.
2) High School – so called “piece work”. We made a bunch of necklaces that would eventually be sold at places like Claire’s. They were beaded necklaces or hemp necklaces (lots of braiding and dealing with cuts from the hardly hemp). I would come home from school, eat, do my homework for 3 hrs and then braid until 11pm at night. They were 10 cents per piece. I read while doing it.
The last year of high school, I found an office job helping out HR at a clinic and kicked @ss at it. Everyone was so impressed by my work ethic and enthusiasm. They had no idea what I went through. I really do think that those jobs motivated me in life to do better and appreciate my jobs after. I also worked in the mailroom, day care center, and retail during college. All my peers were complaining. Ha.
The hardest jobs I had as a teenager: 1) dishwasher/janitor at a restaurant/bar. There is nothing worst than cleaning bathrooms in the morning after a hard night at a bar. Nothing. Plus pulling up sticky bar mats, mopping floors, etc. Then pile on a day of dishwashing afterward. 2) I once took a job to clear several acres of land, mostly on a hillside, with nothing more than tools like sickles, scythes, etc. I just put on my Walkman and started clearing… for weeks, in the summer. I actually liked this job because it was hard work, I was on my own, and I could be lost in my music and my thoughts.
Oh man, that is barf. We had to clean the toilets too at McD and it wasn’t pretty.
3 is a lot Marvin! I didn’t need that much money. I already found my lady :)
Ha!
Minimum wage jobs are the key to appreciating the value of a dollar. It is those people who have never worked in jobs like these who are inevitably in public office, and throwing money around like drunken sailors.
I used to work in a retail shop called Jamesway as the cashier making $5 per hour in the late 80’s… I remember there was the ‘Jamesway radio’ which played in a 45 minute loop interlaced with store commercials. In an 8 hour shift I heard that damn loop 10 times and I can still remember the songs on that more than 20 years later (It must’ve been love, etc…). I got so sick of it I would actually pick up my register phone and hit the page number and just keep the phone off the hook so the music would stop for a few minutes… I remember people were so petty there- a disgruntled employee keyed a managers car because they had a disagreement and he thought the manager thought she was hot shit for driving a Ford Taurus. The depressing thing is that people had that type of a job for decades, with no other exit plan in sight. I told myself there is NO WAY I am going to end up in a place like this and thanked my lucky stars. I only worked there for a summer or two.
The other job I had that sucked was I was working as a stock boy and seller at a shoe store for a company called J.S. Raub, in the same mall as Jamesway. In this particular store the manager, assistant manager and another staff member were all chain smokers- this was back when smoking indoors was still accepted. I had just gotten contacts and my eyes would water and itch like crazy, not to mention my nose stuffing up. I tried my best but couldn’t take it and end up quitting after 3 weeks.
Jobs like these keep you humble, and give you great life experience. I will always respect everyone regardless of their profession. We all have our crosses to bear in life. I will push any children we have to experience these type of jobs early in life.
-Mike
Good story Mike. Every wish to take a trip to visit the old shops? I plan to and see if I can write a story and take some pictures. Never forget!
Alas, they are all out of business now. Another lesson there, and perhaps the most important one!
I was a life guard for a few years. I swore after that that id find something more interesting to do with my time. It was sooo boring!