What Does Early Retirement Feel Like? The Positives And Negatives Of Not Working For A Living

Retirement Travel In SantoriniFinancial independence and retirement are used interchangeably, but there are some subtle differences. Financial independence is usually applicable to people across their entire lifespan. Those who cashed out $5 million dollars worth of Facebook stock at the age of 30 are financially independent just like those who saved $5 million in their retirement funds by the age of 65.

Retirement, on the other hand, is a term often used to describe someone in the last quarter of their lives e.g. ages 65 and up. This is why some folks get so hot and bothered if you aren’t in the upper ages but say you are retired. They don’t think you deserve retirement because you’re not old enough! If you don’t want unwanted attention as an early retiree, just say you are unemployed, on sabbatical, or an entrepreneur.

The reality is all of us would rather be financially independent earlier, so we have more time to enjoy our wealth. When the director of admissions at Berkeley asked why I was applying so early (25), I told her it was because I knew what I wanted to do and felt it best to leverage an MBA degree sooner, for a longer period of time. Little did I know I’d be done 10 years later.

The older we get the more we are willing to trade money for time since we have less of it. Given I’ve already described what financial independence feels like, I’d like to now describe what life is like once you no longer have to report for duty. I’ll be as candid as possible so you can get a realistic understanding.

THE CHANGED LIFE OF A RETIRED MAN – THE POSITIVES

* No longer have to wait for the damn bus. It’s funny that not riding the bus was the first positive that came to mind as opposed to workplace politics, stress, or more common answers. I used to leave the house around 7:20am every morning to catch the 7:23am bus around the corner. Despite my punctuality, the bus would either not arrive on time or be so full of people I’d have to walk another 5 blocks just to get on. Now when I see folks crammed in buses I can’t help but smile.

* Running errands is easy. I do all my errands around 10:45am or 2:30pm, because that is when most people are still at work. There’s no traffic or lines at the store during these hours and I’m much more efficient in getting things done. I continue to wonder why everybody wants to come to work at 8am and leave at 5pm. It took me 1.5 hours to drive 20 miles to pick up my parents at Oakland Airport due to traffic the other month. It only takes 35 minutes during off peak hours. Come into work earlier and leave a little earlier. Your stress level will go way down.

* Lots of free entertainment. There is an incredible amount of free entertainment during the week. Part of it is because organizations want to show their community support and free access on weekdays provides the lowest amount of damage to their bottom lines. For example, I visit at least two $15 cover museums a month for free. There are also free cooking classes by Williams Sonoma, free interior design parties by AirBnb, free rock climbing lessons by REI, and so on. I’ve subscribed to a site called sf.funcheap.com which highlights the various free concerts around the city. Big names such as Alanis, Ed Sheeran, and Matt Nathanson all came to the Golden Gate Park last year. Early bird specials for half off rocks as well!

* House is much cleaner. I’ve never had cleaners and now I know I never will. I enjoy spending 10 minutes a day, or 50 minutes once a week cleaning the kitchen, bathroom, and common areas of the house. There’s something soothing about this process that also feels very rewarding. If you have a working partner, s/he’ll love you for it too. Stay at home men of the world, unite!

* You learn to do things yourself. When I was busy working, I didn’t have time to figure out how to fix the leaky toilet. I would call the plumber and pay him $150-$250 at a time. Nowadays, I simply search on YouTube for a home maintenance tutorial and voila! Call me handyman Sam. If I can’t fix something I’ll chat up the local hardware store attendee and see if he can tell me what’s wrong. Having a smartphone to videotape the issues helps tremendously.

* Better nightlife. Because I used to start work by 7:30-7:45am every morning, I was tired by 10pm. I just wanted to stay in and watch some Tivo or a new DVD after work. Now I’m always down to go out for dinner or drinks with friends during the weekdays. I’ve attended multiple events that last until 11pm and am ecstatic to not have to go to work the next day.

* Better friendships. I spend more time cultivating my offline relationships now that I don’t work. Those thin relationships one has on Facebook become stronger as you actually send them personal messages to see what’s up and hang out. The more you go out, the more friends you’ll meet. This is especially helpful for single folks. Friendships are vital to my happiness and I’m sure to many of yours as well.

* Better family relationships. I spend much more time speaking to and visiting my family now that I have more time. Spending more time with family is probably the most rewarding part about retirement. The younger you are, the more you appreciate it because you likely have more family still around. It was so fun to go car window shopping with my dad when he came to visit over the winter holidays. I also enjoyed taking my parents for a nature walk along the San Francisco cliffs at Land’s End. It’s a blessing to be able to share some physical activities with them.

* More comprehensive posts. My post length average has doubled to roughly 1,500 words from 750 words when I was working. Longer is not necessarily better, but it is more thorough for those readers who come here via search engines such as Google and Bing. A lot of people want informational posts about the ideal mortgage amountnegotiating a severance package, investing in real estate, rebalancing portfolios, evaluating a financial adviser and so forth. Most of my traffic comes from Google, and Google loves meaty content so I oblige. This post is 3,457 words as a reference.

* More purpose in life. Most people I know don’t believe their purpose in life is whatever they do at their jobs. In fact, plenty of folks start getting depressed when they talk about spending all their time at a job that doesn’t really make a positive impact. They see a job as a stepping stone for something greater and can’t wait to get out. Once you no longer have to work for a living, you sidestep such a means and get to go directly to the source. I’d like to think my purpose in life is to be a good son and leave some nuggets of financial wisdom to others that will last long after I’m gone. I’m looking at new avenues in public service such as working in the foreign service to continue my family heritage of serving our country.

* In better shape. Without having to sit in a chair for hours at a time, I’m burning more calories now. I used to struggle maintaining a weight of between 162-165, now it requires less effort. My static work weight was 167-170, which is a noticeable difference for someone with my frame. I now play tennis, bike, walk, or hike at least four times a week compared to just once or twice a week while working. Being in better shape is a great feeling. It might even extend my life, who knows! It mostly depends on genetics.

* You can always be busy. One of the biggest fears working people have before retirement is figuring out what they are going to do with all their free time. I worried how I was going to go from working 70 hours a week to just “working” 20 hours a week and playing sports in the afternoon. I put working in parentheses because I don’t consider writing online and interacting with folks over e-mail and social media work at all. After almost a year of not having to work, I can certainly say that I’ve had no problems staying busy. In fact, it’s hard for me to only restrict myself to around 4 hours of work a day because I’m so used to working 3X more! My mind is always racing to write a new article or try something new. If you have a hobby you are passionate about, you don’t have to worry about not being able to fill the void in retirement.

* No fear of getting fired. Nobody is safe in this economy. You could be a star performer but if your bosses hates you for whatever reason, you’re done. The internet and social media has also elevated your risk of getting fired because nothing you Tweet or write is ever fully private. There’s a recent case where two developers joked about dongles, forking, and repos (real tech terms) and a woman sitting near them overheard, got offended, posted their pictures, tweeted it to her 10,000 followers and one of the guys got fired! The woman who tweeted the picture also got fired so that equals a lose-lose situation. It is a wonderful feeling not having to always watch what you say or do in this free country. If you depend on your job to survive, do not mess around with social media. You will get forked.

* Always smiling. Every time I walk down the sidewalk, guys and girls are constantly smiling back at me. It was strange to have random folks constantly smile at me until I looked at my reflection in a store window and saw my own big stupid grin smiling back at me! I had no idea I was smiling at every stranger I walked by. I’ve got a big teethy smile that I guess makes people want to smile back. Maybe smiling when you don’t even know it is the true meaning of happiness?

THE CHANGED LIFE OF A RETIRED MAN – THE NEGATIVES

* Become more impatient with waste. Traffic and long lunch lines used to annoy me, but now they really annoy me because I hardly ever experience them anymore. I get annoyed with myself for going anywhere during peak rush hour. In fact, I really try not to meet anybody if I have to commute during the hours of 7am-10am and 4pm-7pm. I have to remind myself when it’s bumper to bumper thank goodness I no longer have to deal with such jams on a regular basis. 

* Gets lonely sometimes. While your friends and acquaintances are busy working, you’re sometimes busy doing nothing. If you don’t have a partner or family, then you might end up having breakfast, lunch, and dinner alone. I really enjoy meeting people once a day. As a result, I’ve built a small network of work-from-home, unemployed, and early retiree types to spend time with throughout the day. I also try and play tennis or go for a bike ride after an early afternoon nap. It’s easy to feel disconnected if you’re always working from home.

* Easy to get lazy. I can’t remember feeling lazy since college. I knew I had a window of opportunity to make the most of my career and my finances so I did everything possible to achieve financial freedom. The work hours were extra long, and things got brutal when I spent 3 years getting my MBA part-time. But now I’ve got so much time that sometimes I’ll just take a nice hour nap in the middle of the day when nobody is watching. Sometimes I end up spending two hours in the hot tub without evening realizing the time. As a result of wandering time, I’ve adhered to a morning productivity schedule of writing from at least 7:30am to 11am. Once I’ve put in my 3-3.5 hours, I’m free to do whatever I want.

* Less money. This one is obvious, but maybe not. You only voluntarily retire and stay retired if you have enough money to support your desired lifestyle. It’s a different situation if you are forced into retirement. But, even those who are forced into retirement are enjoying life more. It does sting a little bit to no longer have a healthy W2 income. However, just like how we adapt quickly to a nice bonus or raise, we also adapt quickly to a loss of income. Adaption is one of our greatest attributes. I’ve discovered that we overestimate how much money we need to be happy.

* Vacations aren’t as exciting anymore. I used to love taking five to six weeks of vacation every year. If my old job could grant 10 weeks of vacation a year, I would have stayed on for at least another five years. Now that I’m literally on vacation everyday, planning a vacation sometimes feels like a chore. I went to Hawaii three times in 2012 along with a two week trip to various parts of Europe and Russia. I had a great time, but I’m also beginning to lose my enthusiasm for travel. Spending lots of money to go on vacation also doesn’t feel as rewarding. Pain makes pleasure more pleasurable. When you’ve got all you can eat oysters on the half shell, sometimes you just want a glass of champagne with ice cream instead.

Drinking A Mythos Beer In SantoriniOTHER OBSERVATIONS POST EARLY RETIREMENT

* Spend less time on social media. For some reason, I spend probably 50% less time on Twitter than when I was working. Perhaps it’s because Twitter was a great way to pass the time during commutes. I also continue to spend very little time on Facebook except for my tennis team group page. It’s good to check in once a week to see what’s going on, but that’s about it. The automatic notifications for all my social media apps have been turned off so I can check when convenient not when pushed. I spend more time with offline friends at sporting events, dinners, or parties now.

* Know a lot of unemployed people. No matter what time during the day I go out between Monday and Friday, there are tons of people out on the street or hanging out at the tennis courts. When you’re working, you think everybody is holed up in an office building and only comes out during lunch or when the clock strikes 5pm. In reality, plenty of people are unemployed, but at least they look happy. These are the people the media talks about when they refer to the “real unemployment rate,” or the underemployed. If you can’t find full-time work, then you might as well enjoy the time off to relax in a park or sip coffee outside a cafe on a warm, sunny day.

* Discover so many different ways to live. When I was working I just figured most people live their lives the same way. Of course as I started to grow this blog, I realized many people also earn viable online incomes. Now that I’m meeting people during the middle of the day I realize there is a plethora of ways to make money and live a good life! I’ve met dog walkers, nannies, professional athletes, teachers during their summer vacations, government works with great pensions, bartenders, strippers, bouncers, tennis teachers, coffee shop owners, and a host of small business owners who enjoy a lot of freedom during the day.

* No desire to play golf. I used to love golf but at $58 and five hours a round, I’ve kind of lost interest. If I had a close golfing buddy who could play from 11am to 4pm on the weekdays, I’d probably enjoy it more. The other thing is that I’m no longer rapidly improving given I’ve got a 9.8 handicap. In order for me to regularly break 80, I’ve got to spend massive more time practicing with not much incremental progress. I’d rather play tennis or write instead. For those of you who are golfing fanatics, the handicap sweet spot is 15. Don’t try and get better!

* Feel inspired by older workers. Every time I go grocery shopping, I bump into cashiers and baggers who are over 60 years old. They probably only make around $10 an hour. Their hard work inspires me to not take things for granted and work harder. Everybody starts off with different opportunities in life. We’ve got to make the most of what we’ve got.

* Just want to feel useful. When you don’t work, you may feel you have too much time on your hands somedays. I’m often done with all online related activity by 9am given I wake up at 6am. Running errands or fixing things in the house makes me feel good because it makes me feel useful. If I don’t feel useful, then I feel listless. I can see how feeling useless can lead to depression. Hence, I try and stay busy after writing online by doing more household chores and volunteering. There will be times where I’ll think, Is this it?

* Constantly wonder what else is there in life. When I was busy working, I didn’t have much time left to think about philosophy. Now I’m constantly wondering what else can provide more meaning to life. I feel a little bit like Neo in The Matrix who discovers the world is a meaningless reality made up of billions of entities doing what they are told and not what they want. Then I think how it’s a good thing they don’t know what freedom is like, otherwise there would be a worldwide revolt. We need people to work for as long as possible to pay taxes and support society. I’ve begun reading passages from the I-Ching, The Dhamapada, The Bible, The Koran and other religious works for inspiration.

* It gets harder to stay retired over time. The first six months of retirement were full of excitement, fear, and joy. As time went on, I adapted to my newfound freedom by creating a routine that best suited my desires. Once I mastered my routine life got incredibly easy. When life gets easy, life also starts getting a little boring. I hunger for challenges to keep me motivated. Now that the bull market has returned I’m finding it increasingly difficult to sit on the sidelines as old colleagues maximize their incomes. A growing part of me wants to get back to work so I can leverage the upswing for the next several years.

EARLY RETIREMENT IS A WONDERLAND

There are studies that show death comes quicker after retirement due to a lack of purpose. With the internet and so much good we can do once we have our free time back, I can’t see how anybody would ever feel permanently lost in retirement. Try volunteering at a charity or mentoring a child if you start feeling aimless. Everybody could use a helping hand. The way I like to contribute is through this site.

Retiring early is a blessing because our bodies still allow us to climb the steepest Mayan steps and start the most daunting businesses when we are younger. Hopefully this post gives you some inspiration to get up a little earlier, save more after-tax income, and take calculated risks to retire early as well. The feeling of being able to do whatever you want is priceless. Just know that once you’re retired you may very well want to go back to work!

Recommendation To Build Wealth

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Retirement Update In 2015

It’s been three years since I retired from Corporate America to focus my time traveling, spending time with family, and working on Financial Samurai. Financial Samurai is actually earning a good passive and active income stream online now. If you enjoy writing, creating, connecting with people online, and enjoying more freedom, see how you can set up a WordPress blog in 15 minutes with BluehostYou never know where the journey will take you.

It’s fun to keep active in retirement. I’m consulting with a couple financial tech companies in the San Francisco Bay Area part-time as well.

Photo: It was 77 degrees in Santorini when I visited in October, 2011. After spending three hours exploring every little church and side street, I stopped at a bar to enjoy a Mythos beer. The bar had wi-fi and in streamed my e-mails regarding various opportunities. That’s when I realized maybe, just maybe it was finally time to make a move

Regards,

Sam

Sam started Financial Samurai in 2009 during the depths of the financial crisis as a way to make sense of chaos. After 13 years working on Wall Street, Sam decided to retire in 2012 to utilize everything he learned in business school to focus on online entrepreneurship. Sam focuses on helping readers build more income in real estate, investing, entrepreneurship, and alternative investments in order to achieve financial independence sooner, rather than later.

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Comments

  1. says

    Great post! Two more things I’d add: I can go to the gym while other people are “at work” so all the machines I like are available.

    Then there’s working the laptop in a warm bed on a cold, snowy day, or taking it to a park of a lovely spring day. It’s like they say: the secret to success is location, location, location!

    • says

      I’m impressed you still enjoy going to the gym William! I’ve hated the gym since day 1 and will probably continue to hate it until I die. Thank goodness for Lululemon outfits though. ha.

  2. says

    I don’t think I ever really want to retire – I just want to be doing the things I enjoy and making money until my last breath – it may sound crazy, but I don’t think I would enjoy sitting around and golfing and being rather aimless.

    • se72748 says

      Retiring is the worst thing I ever done.I trained my replacement and so ,there’s no going back.If I knew than what I now know I would never retire.

    • se72748 says

      Okay,I have had it.I have been retired for thirteen months. I’m actively looking for a job.Not for the money, but for the fun of it.The two best gifts of God are Love and work.They are almost equal in value.I have plenty of love ,but my tank is only half full.I need a job to top it off.My advise :Plan long and hard before you retire and do not retire till you have solid plans and a,you are not going to fish every day,unless you are going to become a fisherman ,so forget it.You need a real plan.

  3. says

    I just returned from my trip to India. I spent two weeks there and felt I needed more to meet all of my friends and relatives. Having freedom to go anywhere for as long as you want is priceless. I am still ambivalent about retiring but I would love to have more choices as I get older.

  4. says

    I grew up in a small town(Baroda) about 100 miles North of Mumbai. It takes a day to get there.

    I have seen growth of the middle class there. Average middle class household makes enough to own two cars and a small house with all the appliances.

    I figured that if you have a paid house, you can live like a king for about $1500 a month. You can hire a maid and a cook; you can get your cloth dry cleaned; you can have your car washed daily and can even afford to have a full time driver.

    • says

      Sounds good Shilpan. I just can’t take the weather. I was in Colaba for a couple weeks right before the terrorist attack in 2008. I can see how moving back after making your fortune here would be enticing!

  5. Pinejake says

    “What will you do in with your time”- a common question from coworkers when I mention my upcoming early retirement.

    My answer- not 100% sure, but I know what I won’t be doing, and if I can’t find something better to do with my time than this job, then I am a sad case indeed! ( I have a crappy job)

    • says

      Good point! There is so many better, more fun, and more fulfilling to do with one’s time than one’s job usually.

      I find a lot of fulfillment writing this site and interacting with readers such as yourself. Hope to learn more about your story one day.

  6. Luice says

    Hi, I’m a new subscriber. Stumbled onto your site when trying to figure out what to do with my CDs since they earn so little interest. I agree with your pros and cons of early retirement. I took a year off work and will be returning to a new job next week. I thoroughly enjoyed my time off but it wasn’t without stress. I worked out almost everyday and also trained and completed my first marathon. I traveled and visited families and spent more time with friends. I was financially able to take the time off but not forever. I had thought about starting an online business but can’t figure out what kind of business and seemed risky. So before I become unemployable, I am going back to work and the long commutes (an hour each way). I will miss having the time to do whatever I want and being able to run at the park in the middle of the day. But I need to be practical and continue to save for my retirement. Perhaps my next step is to figure out how to generate some passive income. I have enjoyed reading your articles so far!

  7. Flavio says

    Thanks! Made my day. Took early retirement 4 years ago when I was 53, and some times get the guilty feeling. I have done well financially and have discovered traveling as a great hobby.

  8. William says

    Sam,

    I’m completely against retirement for any human being, I believe it accelerates the aging process. My thinking is based on personal experience. I have a really good job with a top fortune 25 company. An opportunity came up some time ago for this “greater job” within the organization. The job was described as a “early retirement position” among technicians in the know. Sounded great, but be very careful what you wish for. I was with the company for 6-7 years and somewhat happy with my position, but thought I would be happier with this highly talked about position, boy was I wrong.

    It was a position with minimal to nonexistent supervision. Everything that needed to be done could always wait till the next day. There was no overtime, because the customers were internal and they unlike our external customers could wait. Anyway I noticed there was such a, I’m not sure how to describe it, but it was like a mopiness. People would just mope around and if I got excited and want to work hard I was looked at a bucking the trend and potentially seen as someone that could ruin a “good thing”.

    So I found myself doing less and less, hiding from work, getting to things the next day, frankly becoming very lazy and feeling the negative effects. I felt like I had entered an old age home in my 20’s. I did this for 10 years and I wholeheartedly feel that it aged me 20 years. Luckily another position came up in the company where I was able to get back out and BACK TO WORK.

    I now after this experience NEVER wish to retire. I have more appreciation of why people die shortly after retiring. It’s easy to say volunteer, there are all kinds of things to do. But it’s like going to the gym, sounds like a great idea, but try getting yourself there after a night out with friends. But when you have to be to work on time or potentially lose you job, guess what — people show up.

    My analysis after this experience is people/humans, like the caged animals we are, need to be someplace and have a purpose at least 4 days a week (more than half). Vacations are fine for a time when we need a break, but a permanent break kicks off the aging process. I truly believe it’s a natal law to this world like the law of gravity (i.e. whomever doesn’t work hard and give to the world will not in turn be given the “juice” of life).

    Sincerely,
    William

    p.s. my plan for “retirement” is setting myself up for a second career. I’ve attend college nights and recently achieved my MBA from a prestigious Northeast college and am interested in spending my later years “giving my hard work” to some position in higher education wether it’s teaching or in administration. I know I need to mentor, get up have someplace to be and be involved and intern the earth, energy or whatever you want to call it will keep me around.

    • Jack says

      I agree. As a kid, my dad let me eat hot dogs for every meal during a camping trip. It seemed great at first, but after about 3 days I couldn’t eat any more.

      This is probably the same with work. Unlimited travel, golf, beach vacations, etc. seem like a great idea. But more likely, a schedule is better served like a food pyramid; work and family as the base, with vacations and leisure activities being the cherry on top.

    • se72748 says

      I agree with you Sam.If I had retirement to do all over again I would have never retired.There were other options.I could have transferred and that would have been like a new job with the same company.Why didn’t I think of that before :-) ?

  9. adela says

    40 years working in health care. Quit my job 6 months ago at age 57. Husband works 11 hour days (with Parkinson’s Disease) and gets paid 3 times my highest salary. Health care industry never offered me raises, promotions, better hours, less hours. Worked thru lunch, worked thru illness, worked thru Christmas day. Never off on school holidays. Couldn’t get paid overtime – always threatened work status if you worked overtime. Doctors collecting more and more pay. Staff has “hiring freeze”. More work, less staff, and no hope for change.
    So, guilt, anger, amazement, and complete confusion has resulted in leaving my job.
    Early retirement has translated to “I can’t take it anymore”. The hope now is having enough money to survive the inevitable future of having my spouse in a nursing home – about 5 – 10 years. His current age is 54.
    Who wants to live into old age like that? Anyone? Take his place – or mine. Work for your nursing home bill now, so you won’t be on Medicaid (too soon)
    This is why I quit work. Might as well smell the roses while I can. Just haven’t found any flowers in my path just yet.

  10. Ed says

    My job was eliminated 5 years ago at 55. After examining my finances, I decided I was able retire early. I mostly agree with all of the points made in the article. In my case, there is no way in the world I would go back to work. I only wish I could have retired even earlier. Don’t kill yourself working for the bigger house, new car or the corner office. The biggest perk of all is freedom. Get out as soon as you can.

  11. Jack says

    Few things can equal the structure and purpose that work can provide. I started a business that was successful, so I don’t need to work anymore. I’m in my 30s and I’m considering a part time job.

    I’ve traveled plenty, I volunteer, I have tons of hobbies. Yet, work can provide camaraderie with people working towards a shared mission.

    Volunteer positions aren’t the same, since there’s not the same commitment by both the volunteers and the volunteer programs. Most people who volunteer during working hours are 30 years older than me.

    I think the key to work is balance. Too much and you feel stressed. Too little and you get bored. Everybody has a different balance.

    • se72748 says

      I think a mans work is a great gift from God,right up there, real close to the gift of love.You need both work and love for a meaningful life

  12. Craig says

    I retired two years ago at age 59. My biggest retirement adjustment was leaving my office “family.” I don’t miss the work or the commute at all, but I do miss the people I was around for nearly 25 years (yes, a gov’t job).

    I recently went to a 90th birthday party for a former co-worker. He is still “with it,” but has some severe medical issues. Lots of family and friends were there. Yet I hope to not end up in his condition!

    Moral of my story is even with a financially comfortable retirement picture, there are some big life changes after retirement! I actually feel sorry for people of retirement age who can’t enjoy the freedom that I have, so I guess my retirement so far is successful/satisfying! —

    • se72748 says

      I retired last year.My wife has two years till she retires.For me it would have been best to retire at the same time.Money is not a factor but I missed my co workers terribly for the first year.When you walk away from your job.You will be walking away from some of your best friends.That is the worse part.
      I am finally adjusting quite well ,but still considering a part time fun job ,just for laughs and camaraderie.
      Good luck
      Se

  13. Curtis says

    This information has been invaluable to me because of all the human pros and cons! It was exactly what I was looking for. I’m on the brink of pulling the ripcord from the job…and it’s thrilling yet scary after working for 30 plus years. Thanks!

  14. Pritikdave says

    How about having your own business so you are always retired and you are never retired ? Yes, study very well and have professional business .
    Originally I m also from Baroda.

  15. kc says

    I got on the fire department early, and I am eligible to retire now at 45 after 24 years of service. What I did recently (I am still employed), was take six weeks vacation to test the waters. I had that much time banked up. Now, I realize that six weeks is not a “retirement,” but it was enough to let me know that I enjoyed my time off and freedom. Further, what needs to be clarified for each person is what “work” means to them. For example, if I identify as being a firefighter, then when I leave it’s going to be hard. If, however, I see myself as a helper, someone who cares and likes to make a difference for others, then I can move to other areas of “work” and be content. Work does not necessarily equal paid employment. The stay at home mother who manages her family and home- schools her children is surely working, but she is not drawing a traditional paycheck. Work is your labor of love and I do think it is important to maintain it throughout life, whether paid or not. Anyway, as I am thinking of pulling the plug and working in a variety of areas that interest me, I enjoyed your blog post.

  16. Howard says

    This couldn’t come at a better time as I may be forced to retire early this very week. As far as I can tell I can afford it and my job is being eliminated so I’m feeling worthless these days and something needs to change. I want to make the world better for me so 1/3rd of my retirement I plan on volunteering. Since I don’t have my own family I can literally do what I want. It’s on the one hand scary and on the other hopefully the beginning of the best part of my life as it was for my father who retired at 59 but accomplished more in the next 38 years than most of us ever do, so it’s good to see the pros and con’s. In my case, being at a job you hate because there is little to do while you watch yourself just getting another day older, closer to death doesn’t seem like a lot to give up for a world that awaits me while I’m still young enough to enjoy it. (Personal note to self)

  17. Jim McG says

    I just wanted to say that I read this post some time ago and it really stuck with me. I was working at the time, reading Early Retirement Extreme and Mr Moustache at work and fantasising about doing similar. I was made redundant at the end of December and was ecstatic (I landed a nice package from work and had saved hard over the years) and was in the position to live the dream! I remembered this post however – as a golfer, especially the bit about golf! – and have searched hard to find it because it struck me at the time as a really thoughtful summary of the ups and downs of early retirement. Finally found it tonight, clipped it to Evernote, and wanted to say thanks for writing it!

  18. Steve says

    It seems people react to retirement differently. Myself, Im not necessarily retired as I’m in between jobs and have been out of work 4 months and am starting to restart my job search. BUT, I can afford to retire now if I choose to and may be forced to due to my health problems that may force me to file for social security disabilty. For me, every time I’ve had extended time off via being between jobs like now, it’s been extremely difficult filling my free time. I am finding that I actually PREFER working a grind it out job I really don’t like than the burden of boredom. I’m literally climbing the walls. I exercise , do a few errands, hang out at Starbucks, but that’s all I’ve been able to do to fill all my time. I am constantly asking my friend (who is also i between jobs like me) to give me a detailed accounting of what he does each day in the hopes I can get ideas. He says he stays busy every single day and has no problems with boredom. I still don’t get it. This blog has given me a few ideas though. Maybe visiting a few museums or volunteering wil help fill the hours. The only thing that I can think I can do to prevent me from climbing the walls in sheer boredom terror is either go back to work or travel on cruises (I especially love the food on cruises), or travel to 3rd world countries a few months at a time . I never run out of dates with the ladies when I’m abroad in third world counties like the philippines or South America, whereas here in the states, I’m dateless and feel I lack purpose. Life is a bit more interesting in poor 3rd world countries, people seem much more sociable and you feel you can offer the people more help than at home and they seem so much more appreciative , and they find you more interesting and intriguing. I kind of got of track but I guess what I’m saying is that travel is probably the only thing that will keep me from losing my mind if I enter into retiremet early.

  19. Sydney says

    I retired 2 1/2 years ago, at age 54. Since I live in the Midwest, a huge advantage to retirement is not having to drive to work in a blizzard. I well remember that gut-wrenching feeling of the car fishtailing while I was driving in a whiteout during a dark ride home. Now, I can see the beauty of a snowfall out the window, as I relax, drink my hot chocolate and read a book. The weather forecast causes me no anguish.

    I always dreamed of a day when all my children would be off on their own, happy and self sufficient, and I could surround myself with books, and learn everything my mind could dream of. Now I’m living the dream and I’m thrilled with it.

    The most difficult part of early retirement is trying to explain to others what I do with my days. I don’t want people to view me as lazy, even though I know they may envy my freedom. I’m thinking of going back to college for another degree just so I have a socially acceptable label to put on my lifestyle. I know I shouldn’t cave like that, and I should wear my early retirement with pride and/or comfort, but some things are easier said than done.

    • se72748 says

      It would be best if your post retirement plan over laps with your current job.The career that you can’t wait to leave may be the fuel that keeps you going.I volunteer three days a week.Assist former co-workers occasionally anI am looking for a real part time job.LOL.I like how it feels to be a working man

  20. Pete says

    I’m aiming to retire in the summer aged 52, quite young you may think. I’ve worked for 35 years and simply cannot wait to bail out. My mind races with excitement when I think about it. This page is a good read. Life is for enjoying not commuting 3 hours per day in a packed train, putting up with difficult work colleagues and arrogant bosses. I really cannot wait!!

  21. Ron H. says

    Officially retire in a week (Mar 1, 2015), after 25-yr career as police officer. My wife is still working as I.T. Mgr. but wants to retire as soon as possible.

    Interested in Pros/Cons of being retired with spouse?

    And, is it better to retire at/near the same time, or wait a few (months/years) between? Why?

    Anything else?

    • JC Dank says

      Same boat as Ron H. 25 years Police Officer. Last Day Mar. 31st. Wife a nurse with probably 5 years left. May look into some part time security work after few months of honeydo work around house. All my brothers and sisters in public safety be careful.

  22. Daniel Harouche says

    I sold my business and retired at 54. Now, I am 63 and am able to tell you that not be in work is a fantastic release.

    However, there are times when I feel lost, and bored. I experience guilt that I have been granted good health, and reasonable wealth, but cannot find, nor have I found a direction. I still feel young, am married to a working wife and have three great kids who have flown the best and are self sufficient.

    My fantasy of singing like Buble and touring clubs and bars ain’t never goin’ to happen!

    My only advice is to keep your diary open wide to anything that comes along. I have found that each new experience opens a new window of interesting opportunities.

    I am hopeful that the “next big thing” is about to happen. Sadly, after 10 years of searching, that hasn’t happened.

  23. Phil says

    Love the post. This is a post to generate thoughts – but I love the objections from those who ‘will never retire’.
    This is about financial independence – freedom from the mandatory job most of us have.
    I leave work in 3 years time. Venice, Sistine Chapel, Rome, trip through the Amazon, kilmijaro, cost trip down the west coast of US, riding horses in Texas, watch a heavy weight world title, a World Cup, a Grand Prix, see the rolling fields in Yorkshire England, see Ireland, Australia’s Gold Coast, Sydney Opera House, Empire State, Taj Mahal, the great Pyramids and Valley of the Kings, Japan, Great Wall if China…..the Alps.
    Okay so lots to do and I think this is 1% of what is in my mind.

    I will never stop working and earning – I am lucky because I love property and it earns me a great second income. And I can do that and ‘feel useful’ whilst retired but do other things too.

    I get the point about work – and I actually like what u do as my job. If I could leave and then go back 3 days a month I would – but that’s not the deal in finance jobs. They need me 50 hours a week. And when i get to 50 years old that’s time I just can’t afford.

    No rights and wrongs – we are all so different. But i am not defined by my paid job. Your post is a great one and generates thoughts and ideas which are all useful.

    Thx.

    • says

      Those 3 years can’t come fast enough! Remember to eat well and stay healthy so that when the time comes, you can do all those things. Health is truly the most precious thing we’ve got!

      Thanks for stopping by. Hope you stick around.

      S

      • Phil says

        I have done several of the things on my list. Florence was stunning, Sydney and Byron Bay in Australia were superb, New York is amazing…fancy SF this year and a drive in a VW Camper down to San Diego – I may look you up :)

        But you are so right re health. I play sport twice a week but my weight fluctuates and although I have lost it again…that’s a bad habit I need to get out of because health is everything.

        I am lucky because property is my hobby and I love it. So my little hobby will continue and will generate wealth – whilst a modest pension and my rentals will support me.
        My secret, similar to yours, was to save. I have spent money on things I really want (holidays) but never really on ‘stuff’. Also all big purchases eg furniture – have been bargains. I don’t go without….I just don’t want a watch that takes 6 months if my life saving for.

        Tomorrow is not a promise though….so I still enjoy my today’s but dream for tomorrow.

        Happy days from beautiful England.

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