The Joy Of Low Expectations: When Nobody Believes In You

After every tennis match I lost in high school, my father would console me by saying, “You just weren’t good enough.” Those words stung each time I heard them. But they were true. Over time, my dad stopped coming to my matches because I told him the pressure of his gaze wasn’t helpful. With no […]

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The Paradoxes Of Wealth: Misaligned Beliefs About Money

The 2023 Charles Schwab Modern Wealth Survey highlights the many paradoxes of wealth in America. Over 1,000 individuals of all different backgrounds filled out the survey. Overall, the survey, conducted between March 1 and March 23, 2023, says it takes a net worth of $2.2 million to be considered wealthy in 2023. The net worth

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Blind Spots For Fathers Who Think They Are Doing A Great Job

One of the fun things about giving up on retirement is preparing for upcoming job interviews. I probably gave over 300 interviews myself when I was working in banking from 1999 – 2012. One of my favorite interview questions is asking candidates about a blind spot of theirs they eventually realized and how? The question’s

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An Asian-American’s View On Affirmative Action In College Admissions

The Supreme Court decided to strike down affirmative action in college admissions on June 29, 2023. Let me share an Asian-American’s view on affirmative action. Despite only accounting for ~7% of the U.S. population, Asians are not viewed as a minority worth helping in gaining college admissions. This is perplexing given many Asian Americans face

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Why Renters Also Won Big During The Pandemic: Higher Utilization Rates

As a landlord who did a post-mortem pandemic review, I’ve come to realize renters also won big once the lockdowns began. I’m not talking about the renters who decided to stop paying rent even though they continued to be gainfully employed. Many mom-and-pop landlords got hurt by these non-paying renters since the landlord’s expenses still

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A Vacation Property Buying Rule To Follow: Lifestyle First, Income Second

So you’re thinking about buying a vacation property. I’ve owned a vacation property since 2007 and don’t recommend doing so. However, let me introduce a vacation property buying rule to follow so you don’t get in financial trouble. The vacation property buying rule to follow is to buy a vacation property for lifestyle first, income

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