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How To Live Like The Top One Percent Without Being Rich

Updated: 08/15/2021 by Financial Samurai 109 Comments

How to live the top one percent lifestyle without being in the top one percent

We’ve discussed what it takes to be in the top 1% in net worth by age. Let’s discuss how to live like the top one percent without being rich.

Unfortunately, the very definition of top 1% means that 99% of us won’t get there. But once we have a goal, we do infinitely better with our finances even if we don’t achieve our goals. Further, developing consistent motivation throughout our lives is a big part of Financial Samurai.

Living in a first world country is like going to Disney Land. We’ve got free water, clean air, a functioning government, an abundance of food to make us obese, Social Security and subsidized healthcare if we need it. 

With our massive head-start compared to billions of other people in the world, we have every opportunity to surge farther ahead. Yet we are constantly surrounded by people who take things for granted.

This post is about how to replicate a top one percent lifestyle while not being in the top one percent. Who doesn’t love a short cut, especially if it can lead to a better lifestyle?

Earning And Spending Like The Top One Percent

The first step to figuring out how to replicate a top one percenter is to figure out how much the top one percenter saves on average. Lucky for you, I already wrote this post: The Average Savings Rate By Income.

Savings Rates By Income - How To Live Like The Top One Percent Without Being Rich

The top 1% save around 38% of their income.

From the IRS, we know that the top 1% earns at least $470,000 a year overall in 2021+. This means that a $470,000 income earner lives off roughly $291,400 ($470,000 X 62%) of gross income since he saves 38%.

Or, if we assume the $470,000 income earner pays a 30% effective tax rate, then we can also calculate that the top one percenter lives off of $203,980 a year ($470,000 X 0.7 X 0.62).

If you take a look at the top income scales across industries, $291,400 in gross income is much more achievable than $470,000 in gross income per year.

If you are married, then you can look at $291,400 in gross income as total household income where each spouse makes about $145,700. Suddenly, these figures seem much more attainable don’t they? The IRS numbers are based off of tax filings.

Related: The Average Net Worth For The Above Average Married Couple

Main point: To replicate the lifestyle of the typical top one percent income earner, all you’ve got to do is make around $291,400 in total household income and spend 100% of your household income.

Let’s Get Real About The Top One Percent

Because he has no safety net, the person spending 100% of his $235,600 gross income is probably going to start stressing out. He’ll probably also run out of energy and enthusiasm at some point in his career. It’s hard to imagine things will turn out OK if people spend 100% of their paychecks each month.

OK, maybe we’ll cut $235,600 gross income earners some slack and have them contribute $18,000 a year to their 401k. They’ll still have $217,600 in gross income to spend. After 10 years, they’ll likely have over $250,000 in their 401k thanks to returns and company match.

At a $380,000 top one percent income, I know I can easily save 70% of my gross income and live off the remaining $114,000 gross a year here in San Francisco. As a result, I can argue that someone who makes ~$114,000 a year can also replicate the lifestyle of a frugal 1% income-earner.

Main point: Unlike what the mass media wants you to believe, most wealthy people don’t blow all their money and end up broke. It’s the people who aren’t wealthy who buy things they can’t afford to impress people they don’t like.

For some reason, there are people who don’t work hard, didn’t study hard, don’t spend time understanding how to invest, have a scarcity mentality, and don’t start side hustles who believe they deserve to live a top tier lifestyle. Nuts!

2) Investing Like The Top One Percent

The second step to living like the top one percent is to invest like the top one percent. It’s important to make your wealth last for as long as possible. You don’t want to be the fool who blows his entire fortune well before he’s dead.

The biggest difference between the top one percent investor and the average investor is the average investor has a net worth way too concentrated in his primary residence. It’s estimated that roughly 80% of the median homeowner’s net worth is tied up in a primary residence. Small wonder the median homeowner gets crushed during every financial downturn.

The top one percent investor is happy with 5% annual net worth returns. Before Bernie Madoff’s ponzi scheme was found out, he collected over $50B in assets from the wealthiest individuals and institutions because he guaranteed 10% a year. Meanwhile, the average investor thinks they’re Warren Buffet reincarnate and takes excess risk to try and make hero-like returns.

Just look at the asset allocation of massive university endowments. No one asset class takes up much more than 25%.

Stanford University Endowment Asset Allocation 2015 - 2016 - How To Live Like The Top One Percent Without Being Rich
Stanford University Endowment Asset Allocation. Only the middle class go all-in on one asset class.

Main point: Stop trying to hit home runs with your money. Aim for singles and doubles, accompanied with aggressive savings. Your net worth should be diverse. Once you get to your number, protect it at all cost.

3) Work Like The One Percent

The top 1% consist of largely working professionals who pay a massive amount of taxes because most of their income is W2 income. Most of them work way more than 40 hours a week; think banking, law, consulting and medicine. 70+ hours a week in these fields is the norm.

Many one percenters must spend extra time in school to get a graduate degree or higher. More time in school means later start times to earn income and likely more student debt.

Here’s a chart of a $500,000 top one percent income household. You can see how quickly money goes due to taxes, kids and expensive city living.

Top one percent household income expenses

The income cutoff for the top 0.1% is around $1,000,000. The top 0.1% can consist of those in the top 1% who last long enough to get into the top 10% of their respective professions. The top 0.1% are also the small business owners, celebrities and professional athletes.

Main point: Getting to the top one percent doesn’t just happen. There are sacrifices that need to be made. Once you get to the top one percent, life can be more stressful due to demanding work and lifestyle inflation. Money does not cure misery.

There’s Not Much Difference In Lifestyle

To the right of the Members Only sign are the rich members of Waialae CC. To the left or regular folks. Beaches are public. Life is the same!
To the right of the Members Only sign are the rich members of Waialae Country Club. To the left are regular folks. Beaches are free for everyone in Hawaii. Life is the same.

The lifestyle difference between the top one percent and the middle class lifestyle is small. It’s only when you reach the top 0.1% that you can really start experiencing a lifestyle difference like flying in private planes, paying cash for $10 million dollar homes, eating 12 oz Kobe beef steaks until you puke and driving $200,000+ cars.

If you’re making $380,000+ in San Francisco or Manhattan and want to buy a modest $1,500,000 home, you’re going to need $300,000 down and a $1,200,000 mortgage. You’ve got to work and save diligently for a downpayment if the Bank of Mom and Dad isn’t open and then work harder after purchase to ensure you won’t get kicked to the curb due to your massive mortgage!

At $8,000 an hour on NetJets, there’s no way a $380,000+ salary can afford flying private more than once a year. Meanwhile, private school tuition often costs in excess of $40,000 a year, or $70,000 in required gross income. There really isn’t much difference between a public school education and a private school education. I attended both for years and I’ve seen both types of graduates do well.

At my tennis club, whether you are a billionaire, a recent college graduate or a sexy personal finance blogger, we spend the same two hours whacking balls and grabbing a $3 drink at the bar upstairs. Sure, the billionaire might go back to a $25 million mansion, but we still get to breathe the same crisp air, enjoy moderate 68 degree weather and go back to comfortable beds as well.

Despite a widening wealth gap, the socio-economic gap is narrowing. We have less inequality and more free access to information. Smartphones are 100X more powerful and 99% cheaper than mobile phones from 20 years ago. Free access to Google Docs means nobody has to spend $500 for Microsoft Office software ever again. Fintech companies make managing your net worth free and easy. What more do we really need?

Don’t Envy The Rich

We can really only envy the rich who did nothing to get rich – you know, the trust fund kids or those who married into wealth. But even then, can we really blame them for being born or finding love? I don’t. They are lucky, just like many of us are lucky.

Some of my best memories are from when I was a poor exchange student living in Beijing. I slept on on a one-inch thin mattress in 90 degree heat while a fan automatically rotated to my side every eight seconds enabling both my roomie and me to breathe.

We students pooled our resources to buy food and cook on portable gas burners in our dorm hallways. After lunch, we’d take turns using the shared squat toilet stalls. So much fun! I’m way wealthier than I was back then, but am just as happy. Think back to when you didn’t have much and compare your happiness level today.

Based on the way I’ve set up my business, I make a very middle class salary for San Francisco. I don’t mind because I don’t work nearly as hard as I used to. Further, I’ve leveraged the internet to maximize my freedom. The more freedom you have, the LESS money you’ll want or need.

Get Into The Top One Percent With Real Estate

Real estate is my favorite way to create wealth because it is a tangible asset that is less volatile, provides utility, and generates income. If you want to become a top one percent, real estate is a tried and true method.

In 2016, I started diversifying into heartland real estate to take advantage of lower valuations and higher cap rates. I did so by investing $810,000 with real estate crowdfunding platforms. With interest rates down, the value of cash flow is up. Further, the pandemic has made working from home more common.

Take a look at my two favorite real estate crowdfunding platforms. Both are free to sign up and explore.

Fundrise: A way for accredited and non-accredited investors to diversify into real estate through private eFunds. Fundrise has been around since 2012 and has consistently generated steady returns, no matter what the stock market is doing. For most people, investing in a diversified eREIT is the way to go. 

CrowdStreet: A way for accredited investors to invest in individual real estate opportunities mostly in 18-hour cities. 18-hour cities are secondary cities with lower valuations, higher rental yields, and potentially higher growth due to job growth and demographic trends. If you have a lot more capital, you can build you own diversified real estate portfolio. 

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I spent 13 years working at Goldman Sachs and Credit Suisse. In 1999, I earned my BA from William & Mary and in 2006, I received my MBA from UC Berkeley.

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Comments

  1. Christina says

    February 6, 2021 at 6:20 am

    Amazing article of which I completely agree after watching my Parents spend all their money living like rockstars to impress others died broke.

    I went the other polar opposite of them as I began my working career and saved and invested 50-70% or more of my income from the beginning till now when I’m successful with a 1% salary. Now I can retire at 50 years old and live like a rockstar the rest of my life worry free on residual income.

    Read the books & blogs
    Stay disciplined
    Set goals
    Ignore the naysayers

    Be clever how you spend so you don’t pay full price but enjoy 1st class and coach prices.

    Make your own way in life and follow your dreams to live well.

    Warning: Guard your wealth in the end when the broke relatives that squandered their money try to spend your money. Healthy boundaries are critical.

    Wonderful and accurate article.

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  2. futuret says

    July 25, 2020 at 7:49 am

    Please sign me up for your newsletters.

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  3. CJ says

    November 27, 2016 at 1:11 am

    Sam,

    Always enjoy the articles, but you’ve oversimplified taxes in this example by making the marginal rate the effective rate. This has a significant effect on net income as the effective rate is probably closer to 25% in this scenario. Effective tax rates are glossed over or misunderstood by many.

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    • Financial Samurai says

      November 27, 2016 at 6:08 am

      CJ,

      I’m very well of the difference between the marginal rate and the effective rate. Do you have suggestions on how I can write to help people who are confused understand better? Effective rate = total tax you pay / gross income. Marginal rate = tax you pay on various levels of income.

      See: How To Prepare For Trump’s Middle Class Tax Hike

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  4. SwordGuy says

    August 9, 2016 at 5:43 am

    Correct income tax on $464,000 for married filing jointly for 2016 is more like $129,546, not $185,600.

    Having trouble feeling sorry for how hard the rich have it when we just found a median family’s worth of income – $56,054 – in the cookie jar. Especially since that’s after tax money and a median family has to live on that amount less taxes…

    And that sample budget you give for the poor, downtrodden rich, who can barely make ends meet is excessive beyond words.

    Anyone who is wealthy in this country has no leg to stand on to complain about taxes.

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    • Financial Samurai says

      August 9, 2016 at 8:52 am

      Did you forget about the 6.85% NY State tax + 3.88% NYCity tax + 6.65% FICA tax up to the first $118,000?

      If you do indeed make $500,000, I’d love to know your tax minimization strategies. Moving to a no income tax state and starting a business are two. The more the merrier. Thx.

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      • SwordGuy says

        August 9, 2016 at 9:48 am

        We’re not at the $500k range, just the $180k range and climbing.

        We’re saving/investing over 50% of our gross income.

        That’s why I say someone making $500,000 or more has no reason to be whining about taxes. They’ve got plenty of money to live a great life.

        Aside from 401ks and index investing, we’re putting money into rental real estate. We buy the properties that are undervalued because they need work, do a fair bit of the work ourselves, and then watch our net worth go up big time when the repairs are done. (Plus our income goes up from rents.) Our net worth went up about 125% of our gross income last year just from savings and real estate – and that’s not counting any stock value appreciation.

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        • Financial Samurai says

          August 9, 2016 at 10:53 am

          Ah, OK. I don’t think many people are whining who are making $500K+. The chart is there to highlight how the money can be spent quite quickly living in an expensive city with family.

          It’s easy to just dismiss other people w/out walking in their shoes, that they should do this and that. Hopefully more people can see the various ways.

          Read: Scraping By On $500,000 A Year if you want to get heated.

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  5. Homebody says

    July 17, 2016 at 8:57 pm

    “Despite a widening wealth gap, the socio-economic gap is narrowing.” This is the powerful statement that too many Americans don’t realize. Politicians play us like fiddles, making us envious of the “idle rich” (or, on the other side, the “idle poor”) while seeking power for themselves. Like another commenter said, reading The Millionaire Next Door was a wake-up call for me. And look at how much the 1% save! I also appreciate the perspective from the commenter making $80k. Thanks for continuing to inspire!

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    • Financial Samurai says

      July 18, 2016 at 12:55 am

      Correct. I hope the people realize that politicians are mainly out there for themselves. Nobody becomes a politician without tremendous ego as their job is to market themselves.

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      • Claire says

        July 26, 2016 at 7:37 am

        Michael Sandel (a Harvard prof) actually thinks the opposite is true: that financial inequality matters more, now, than it did 50 years ago because so many more aspects of society are for sale/ subject to financial considerations.
        For example….

        -Our society is more economically segregated than it was 50 years ago. (See . Economic segregation + school systems funded by property taxes means that the quality of education one’s children receives is highly influenced by economic status. (For the money-education connection, see also this interactive graph: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2016/04/29/upshot/money-race-and-success-how-your-school-district-compares.html?_r=0)

        -Court fees have risen dramatically (esp. at the local level) , which means one’s experience of the justice system varies tremendously with income. (See https://www.npr.org/2014/05/19/312158516/increasing-court-fees-punish-the-poor).

        -A person’s ability to have a family is also now more subject to economic
        considerations (think increased hospital, adoption, and childcare costs as well as the advent of various assisted reproduction techniques and even surrogacy agreements only available to those who can pay).

        -Marriage is increasingly a luxury that the poor can’t afford because it means losing things like health care (I would argue that this last issue mostly due to public policies with perverse incentives, but it’s still pretty significant that whether or not one grows up with a father is highly influenced by how much money one’s parents were making when one was conceived).

        So, while the gap between rich and poor may be considerably narrower on the smart phone / digital entertainment scale than it was 50 years ago, the gap is wider when it comes to several of the most important aspects of life: family and family stability, education, and the justice system.

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        • Financial Samurai says

          July 26, 2016 at 8:16 am

          Claire,

          That’s a pretty negative outlook you have there. I’m not quite getting your point on marriage and court fees. There’s lots of subsidy for healthcare now under ACA. Education is free now due to the internet. If you want to integrate, anybody is free to meet up with other people, go salsa dancing, attend a Japanese food festival, or a Jazz street festival etc.

          Do you feel you are struggling? I’d love to learn more about your background to get a better idea of where you are coming from. The lower income lifestyle in places like India and Cambodia are truly difficult to watch in comparison to in the US.

          S

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          • Claire says

            July 26, 2016 at 2:47 pm

            I consider myself middle class; I do not consider myself struggling, and I have a great life although retirement and the possibility of job loss or a major health problem scare me (and my husband and I are both huge savers). I am in my 30’s and live in a small town in the South, grew up middle-class in a medium-sized city in the South, and have previously lived (as an adult) in both New England and the Midwest. I have also previously lived on a small income, but always above the poverty line. I would agree that being poor in the US is way better than being in the middle quintile in Cambodia. I wasn’t trying to argue that they are anything close to equivalent.

            However, I also think it is obvious from the data that one’s economic class has a HUGE impact on one’s life prospects in this country when it comes to education, family organization, healthcare, and the justice system. And these are things I care about way more than smartphones and Netflix.

            Let me ask you this: do you honestly think that K-12 schools where the median family income is, say $120,000, tend to be equivalent in quality to schools where the median family income is $40,000? Because the data that I posted contradicts that. Also, if the internet has made quality education free, then anyone who pays for education is a sucker…but again, the data indicates that paying for education, in general, pays off (although it is certainly possible to overpay). I teach college at a university where the students are above average nationally, and even so very few of my students would be successful trying to get the equivalent of a college education from MOOCS even if credentials weren’t an issue. They need individual support. And that’s not just my impression: the data indicates that MOOCs are not the key to leveling the education field anymore than libraries or free books are–the vast majority of people who start MOOCs never finish, and the people who are most successful in MOOCs already have college degrees.

            More generally, everything that I wrote is supported by data: people who grow up in poverty are less likely to get married than people who are middle class or wealthy, and match.com hasn’t changed that. The issue isn’t meeting other people–poor people meet just as many people as rich and middle class people do (just not the same people)–the issue is that getting married could very easily cost your child his medicaid eligibility or some other needed benefit. I understand the reason for these policies, but the unintended consequence is lots of children growing up without fathers. I cannot tell you how grateful I am to have grown up in a stable family; this is something I wish for everyone, rich or poor. It is also something I wouldn’t trade for millions of dollars. But I cannot ignore the fact that low income doesn’t just result from unstable families; it contributes to them.

            Here’s the point about court fees: if you have cash and do something stupid that leaves you subject to a court fee (or are suspected of doing something that leaves you subject to a court fee–they’re not just for those who have been proven guilty); it’s no big deal–you pay the fee and move on. But if you don’t have the money, you could easily be jailed, lose your job, and/or find yourself in a near endless cycle of fees for not paying fees. That is a huge disparity in consequences for the same offense.

            (As another issue, states that did not expand medicaid with the ACA have subsidies for the middle class but have done nothing to help poor adults afford health insurance. I could say lots of other things about the ACA, but I don’t want to get sidetracked, here)

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            • Financial Samurai says

              July 26, 2016 at 5:08 pm

              Ok, so let’s say what you say is true, and I agree with you that life is much more difficult now than before, what are some solutions?

              I think it’s important we all offer up as many solutions as possible to help improve society instead of only pointing out that there are problems. It’s like a cameraman who is filming a starving child. I hope the cameraman to turn off the camera instead and nurture the child back to health!

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            • Claire says

              July 29, 2016 at 11:02 am

              Good question on solutions!

              The court fee issue has some of the easiest solutions: don’t charge people for things it’s the state’s duty to provide. If the state wants to lock people up, it should be the state’s duty to pay for the due process to which all accused persons are entitled before they get locked up. If the state won’t pay for that, I question how important it is to lock up the person in the first place.
              Fines for things that shouldn’t merit jail but still merit some sort of punishment are tougher. The first thing I would say is that the biggest reason these fines have increased over the past couple of decades is that local governments see fines as a nice potential source of revenue. I don’t know if you saw anything about the justice department’s investigation into Ferguson, but the conclusion of that investigation is that black people were routinely targeted for fines in order to increase the public coffers. (Examples: police officers had competitions to see who could issue the most tickets on a given traffic stop; the town purposefully made paying off tickets difficult so that they could issue more fees for non/late payment). So, I would say that decisions about which offences to penalize, whether to penalize with a fine or some other non-jail penalty (e.g., community service, restriction on some privilege) and how high to set any fines that are deemed appropriate should be made independent of revenue potential considerations. Simple non-payment of fines should not in any case be a jail-worthy offence. (It could just be that the fine stays with you–not incurring additional fees–until you pay it off, and they could do something like the ACA thing where the state can withhold part of your income tax refund to collect outstanding fines).

              My real dream when it comes to the disproportionate effect of sudden $200, immediate expenses would be the creation of non-profit “banks” that take the place of payday loan type places: a place where poor people can go to get a quick $400 when their car breaks down or they have to make bail or whatever, where the repayment structure (unlike at payday loan places) would be intended to enable repayment and where the interest rate would be zero or close to zero (sort of like microloans, but for the U.S.).

              When it comes to the education and family stability issues, I have fewer policy solutions–I think values need to change. For education, we need people to stop buying houses based on the socioeconomic status of the area of town/ neighborhood. Socioeconomic diversity is the most effective known way to close the achievement gap (poor kids at diverse schools do way better than poor kids at poor schools, but rich kids at diverse schools do almost as well as rich kids at rich schools).

              For family stability, I suppose the specific child medicaid issue could be addressed if healthcare for kids were like public schooling–available to all kids, rich and poor, at no charge. It’s not like people are going to have more kids in order to get free health care for those kids, anymore than they currently have more kids in order to get free education for those kids.

              I think there’s a bigger problem than the medicaid one, though, and that is a values issue of how potential children are currently viewed within the context of sexual, non-married/ non-committed relationships. I think having sex has to be tied with the expectation of both partners committing themselves to any child who might result and to one another as (at the very least) lifelong co-parents. If you can’t make that commitment, choose to express your temporary desire to connect with one another in other ways that don’t lead to children.

              Right now, unplanned children in non-committed relationships are seen as the woman’s responsibility and choice (except when it comes to child support). Example: my OBGYN’s office has pamphlets trying to encourage single women to tell the father about the baby, include the father’s name on the birth certificate, and allow the father to be involved in the baby’s life. The fact that these sorts of messages are needed is deeply troubling. (Yes, I get that you should cut you and your child off from a person who is abusive, and I am NOT suggesting that abused women or men should stay with their abusers “for the sake of the child”.) Every child deserves two loving parents involved in their life, and this is something that both men and women need to recognize…and they need to recognize it before they engage in the sort of act that produces children. End of social commentary!

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        • Rob says

          July 26, 2016 at 9:51 am

          I think that Harvard’s theory is bunk.

          I think the reason people believe and care that the divide is larger is three fold.

          1) Real Median Incomes are down in the last 10 years and are basically back to 1989 levels. However, the top 10% have done phenomenally well since 1989 inflation adjusted. Globalism and to some degree the rise of tech has created winners (mostly in the top 5-10%) and losers (middle 50%). This is also why Donald Trump (and to a lesser degree Bernie Sanders) did so well in the primaries and why I think he wins in November. GDP has expanded massively since 1989 but all of it and then some is going upstream.

          2) 24/7/365 news + reality shows. People before just went about their own lives in the 50s, 60s and maybe watched 30 or 60 minutes of news a day, most of which is local. Today we have news on our phones, 2000 channels on TV, on our tablets, on our computers – pretty much everywhere we look is news and glamour. When you are told constantly of issues, pundits and politicians yelling about the 1% and shows that glorify the rich and lavish lifestyles, its easy to start to feel resentful. The best proof I have of this is that since 1990, gun crime is down per capita nearly 60%. But when people were polled, 75% of the population believed gun crime was higher. When all you see (news) is gun crime and politicians tell you its the most important issue now more than ever, you begin to believe it – even though statistically we are at the lowest violent crime rates in the history of the US even though gun ownership is at all time records and the # of guns has nearly tripled since 1990.

          3) People believe that the wealthy (say over $1 million in assets) were born rich. However, based on the research done by the Millionaire next door author, 85% of millionaires are first generation wealthy and more than 50% never received a single gift of any amount from their parents. But the perception today is that they just are silver spoon-fed on gold plates from cradle to grave. Put another way, people believe class mobility is non-existant when that isn’t true at all. Take me – my grandfather was a HS drop out. My dad was HS only grad. My father in the 1980s was right around the lower 25% income line. Today at 34 years old, I make over $250k/yr paying for my own college and MBA entirely without any assistance. I should have a NW of around $3 million at 45 and $5 mil at 50 if all goes to plan (My father is going to retire at 65 with around $250k after saving for the last 40 years)

          Personally, I think fewer people are getting married for 2 reasons 1) much easier to get some outside of marriage 2) a lot of men are opting out due to all the laws that were setup 100 years ago that today drastically favor women when it comes to divorce. 2 of my good buddies – both slightly above median HH income on their own salary – are this way.

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          • Financial Samurai says

            July 26, 2016 at 10:15 am

            Check out: Income Limits When The Marriage Penalty Tax Kicks In

            In the past, marriage was more of a necessity. Now, women and men are more independent and free to make money in many different ways. Why pay a penalty to the government when you can keep more of your money and be more free?

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            • Rob says

              July 26, 2016 at 11:34 am

              Yup – fortunately for me, my wife isn’t working so being married reduces our taxes compared to not married and filing separately but that isn’t true for large portions of the population (and I wished my wife was working – could retire earlier!)

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              • Financial Samurai says

                July 26, 2016 at 12:15 pm

                Have you read? How To Convince Your Spouse To Work Longer So You Can Retire Earlier?

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          • Elizabeth says

            July 31, 2016 at 10:38 am

            In response to #3…. (85% of millionaires are first generation wealthy and more than 50% never received a single gift of any amount from their parents). Don’t believe the rhetoric designed to gain your vote. It’s simply using jealousy, full of false accusations, it pits American against American and gives a sense that you can’t make it without their help. Instead stop doing the same thing that has not worked in the past.

            I’m one of those first generation and I HATE the rhetoric out there since for me I know it’s a lie. I grew up in a lower income family and kept trying to move up. I found that it’s very hard to build wealth while working “for W2 income” because of our progressive tax code. After 2 failed business I finally started and run a successful business and as my profit increase I was shocked at how much I pay in taxes as a small business owner. It’s disheartening and felt like a kick in the pants. Thankfully I didn’t try to live like I was rich and instead focused on building wealth (move to the B & I side of the cash flow quadrant.

            I am a HENRY… High Income Not Rich Yet and instead of spending like I am rich I focused on building wealth and also tried to get my siblings pointed in the right direction and also pay care givers to take care of my elderly mom. Unfortunately my siblings keep wanting to do the same thing that wasn’t working for them in the first place. I can only help so much.

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  6. Vikram Singh says

    July 17, 2016 at 4:07 pm

    You nailed the profile of 1 percent… great job.. awesome article.
    Everyone thinks that 1 percent have way better lives than the middle class. I started poor 14 years back, worked hard to move up to middle class and finally in 1 percent now. I don’t see much difference in my lifestyle between middle class and 1 percent. Actually it’s getting increasingly difficult to maintain work life balance. I was more happy making lesser money.

    I’m from India and will like to say that America has done a great job with income and lifestyle equality. People who were born in US do not appreciate that… you will have to visit India or another third world country to appreciate what you have here. Though the income equality in US is getting worse, but it will still remain better than most countries in the world.

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    • Homebody says

      July 17, 2016 at 9:02 pm

      Wow, that’s good to know. There is still that consummate American myth of pulling yourself up by your bootstraps. So no matter where you come from or how you talk, if you “make it”, you are accepted/admired. There is no caste or royalty.

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  7. Clint says

    July 14, 2016 at 2:12 pm

    The crazy thing is, most Americans are living in the 1% compared to the rest of the world. I hope that as we continue to lessen the lifestyle gap, our work ethics don’t decline. Hopefully as Americans we continue to use our freedom for noble pursuits rather than laziness…that’s why I like your sight. HONORABLE personal finance.

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    • Clint says

      July 14, 2016 at 2:13 pm

      Oh and btw, like the look of the site. I know it has been redesigned for a while now, but I love the upgraded look, especially the logo!

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      • Financial Samurai says

        July 15, 2016 at 10:37 pm

        Thanks Clint. It was fun to design after three years. I like the new functionality a lot.

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  8. raluca says

    July 14, 2016 at 7:14 am

    Wow, reading this, while living in an developing nation is hard not to feel jealous.
    I will most likely never be in the 1% world-wide. And that’s ok, I chose my family over money and my country over getting rich.
    I don’t really envy people who got money because they were born at the right time and in the right family/place/country. But I don’t really respect them either. To me, they are in no way better than the students I met in China that had to go through an incredibly hard exam to get into their university. There were 1000 applicants for every spot. They were the 0.1%.

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  9. Zaphod says

    July 12, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    Ha, I thought you were doing the breakdown of our household when you charted down those numbers! Yes, our effective tax rate is 40% (sometimes slightly above), and there is ridiculously nominal child care tax subsidy by the government to help promote 2 career households in anyway. But expenses can be lowered significantly for this example household that you pain. Lower mortgage, less frivolous apending on socializing or vacations, and public schools, can all lead to aggressive savings.

    And why not! I agree entirely with you that above a basic sustenance level necessary for happiness, any additional amount is not contributing towards your happiness. I think the happiness expert Kahnamen puts this number between 60-90k per year per household income in the U.S. Once your basic needs are taken care of, “happiness lies within”.

    Personally, as a member of a happy family, I don’t care if we live in a large single family home or a small town home as long as it’s a cozy dwelling and we are together and healthy. Cars serve the purpose of going from point A to B, and money is a tool to spend on meaningful and fun activities.

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    • Financial Samurai says

      July 13, 2016 at 9:32 am

      I don’t believe 60-90K per year is the maximum household income for where happiness no longer increases. Hint: how much did Kahnamen ever make a year? Researchers and academics tend to cap out around $100K a year. They are biased.

      I believe the income figure for an individual is closer to $200,000 a year and $250,000 – $300,000 per couple with or without kids. This is based off experience and close documentation of making $3.65/hour to way over $300,000 a year. See: The Ideal Income For Maximum Happiness.

      Thank you for paying a 40% effective tax rate. Fight on!

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  10. Mitch Mitchell says

    July 12, 2016 at 12:30 pm

    Good going with this post. I hadn’t quite thought about it this way yet I had some of the beliefs in my head. It started some years ago when I started seeing so many wealthy people selling their homes and planes and starting to travel coach, which didn’t initially make sense because… well, they’re rich. Then I realized that their being rich didn’t make them better money managers and if we handle ours better we could potentially live like they do… with just a few less perks.

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