If You Can Make It In Hawaii You Can Make It Anywhere

Kahala Resort & Hotel View

There’s an old saying, “If you can make it in New York, you can make it anywhere.” The idea is that with New York City being so competitive, only the strongest survive. I worked on the trading floor at one of the most hardcore investment banks around and I can unequivocally tell you that making it in NYC is brutal. The weather beats you up for at least six months a year, the work hours are long, and your money doesn’t go very far.

Two years and 15 pounds heavier I left NYC in 2001 for an easier life out in San Francisco where I didn’t know a soul. I thoroughly admit I didn’t make it in NYC. Perhaps I could have stayed on as a third year financial analyst, but surely Goldman would have made me go back to business school afterward rather than promote me directly to Associate. The thought of returning to school at the time and spending all that money wasn’t appealing.

By spring 2001 it was clear the economy was not in good shape one year after the NASDAQ collapsed. I decided to take matters into my own hands and jump to a competitor for that Associate promotion and raise instead.

Waiting to get let go is like waiting to die.

THE DIFFICULT HAWAIIAN LIFE

I’ve been coming back to Hawaii for over 35 years because that’s where half the side of my family is from. Ever since college graduation in 1999, Oahu has been tempting me to hurry up and quit the stressful finance life so I can kick back on the beach and live off mother nature. Every year I resisted because I knew that once I moved to Hawaii, there was no going back.

I noticed several childhood friends attend the University of Hawaii and never leave. They’d find stable jobs as accountants, dentists, telecom operators, realtors, car salesmen, and public servants making a healthy $35,000 – $90,000 a year. Instead of living on their own, they’d continue living with their parents, saving lots of money in the process to one day buy a place if they ever meet someone special. Family (Ohana) is the foundation of Hawaiian culture and having three generations live under one household is not uncommon. Even at our weekly Friday night poker game, a grandma comes to wipe us out ever single time.

In the back of my mind I always knew Oahu would forever be waiting for me. As a result, I didn’t want to permanently return until I could thoroughly see what I could do on my own on the mainland or in a foreign country. If your first car is a Ferrari, your car driving experience is ruined for the rest of your life. Besides, the speed limit on the H-1 highway is only 50 mph! That’s when you know you’ve literally got to slow down for island living.

I wanted my first car to be a beater with electrical gremlins and funny screeching sounds so I decided to start my career on the East Coast and gradually move my way West as my energy for work faded. The hope was that by the time I could move back to Hawaii, my finances would make up for my lost enthusiasm to be somebody’s whipping boy.

MOTIVATION TO MAKE MONEY IS HARD

When it costs nothing to surf or hike, it’s really hard to get motivated to make a lot of money. As a local, you get Kama’aiana rates which gives you further discounts on hotels, services, and golf rates. There are loads of parks all around the islands where you can play tennis, soccer, and basketball for free. Best of all, every beach is open to the public, even the ones with multi-million dollar mansions behind them.

There is a strong feeling that everyone in Hawaii is on vacation because of the large tourism industry that dominates the economy. If every other person you meet is from Japan, Europe, or the mainland hanging loose for a week or two, you’re going to feel mighty compelled to also get into vacation mode. You start thinking, If they are enjoying life on vacation, why can’t I? Hawaii’s biggest import product is other people’s leisure! 

When it’s 70-88 degrees every single day, it’s hard to motivate yourself to work inside a cubicle for 8+ hours for a better life when a better life is waiting for you right outside. There’s no point saving for retirement! New York City’s grey skies, muggy summers, and frigid winters made it EASY for me to work 14 hour days at 1 New York Plaza. We had computers, free internet, a small shopping arcade, a gym, and free food. What more do you need?

Saving money and working like a dog came naturally on the East Coast because all I could think about during the winter was buying a plane ticket to somewhere warm and never working another day again.

HAWAII MAKES YOU EASILY SATISFIED WITH LIFE

I remember vomiting junior year of high school after an intense training session in track. My teammates and I were practicing for the 4X200 meter relay for Districts and we pushed ourselves to the max because we were never satisfied. As I was barfing my lungs out my coach told me, “That a boy. You haven’t really tried your hardest until you start vomiting all over the place!” She sounded cruel at the time, especially since she was extremely out of shape. But I took her words to heart and aimed to vomit all over her shoes every single day!

Major cities in the mainland propel you to want more, more, more. There’s never an end to the amount of money you can make in New York City or the number of startups you want to kill yourself over in San Francisco. Hawaii gives you the entirely opposite effect of making you slowdown and appreciate all that you have.

I knew if I returned to Hawaii early I’d be absolutely satisfied with a $50,000 a year job working 9-5. Of course there’s nothing wrong with a $50K a year job and regular work hours, I just wanted to test my limits. The only way I could thoroughly enjoy Hawaii was to make my fortune elsewhere and come back without having the need to work 40+ hours a week. The temptation to slack off would be just too great.

I’m keenly aware that locals hate it when non-locals go away and come back to the island with their flashy cars and fancy homes, making things more expensive in the process. This is why I’m happy to just live in an old home I’ve been coming back to since I was a kid and drive an old car. It’s all about rolling in a hatchback or old truck to blend in.

HAWAII IS EXPENSIVE ONCE YOU’RE ON YOUR OWN

The median home price is about $575,000 in Honolulu according to Zillow. Based on my conservative 30/30/3 rule of home buying, this means you need to make roughly $192,000 a year (house max price is 3X annual salary) and have $172,500 on hand in cash (30% of house in cash for 20% downpayment and 10% cash buffer) to be able to buy a home. To get a home in a desirable area, you probably have to spend at least $800,000.

With the median household income of around $72,000, Honolulu households are making good money compared to the national median of $51,000. But when the median house is 8X the median salary, the income isn’t that great if you’re looking to buy. So how does the typical Hawaiian buy a median priced home? The answer is with a lot of help from family.

The majority of my Hawaiian friends end up living at home with their parents after college until marriage. As a result, decent sized nest eggs should grow over a five-to-eight year period when the children typically tend to move out to start their own family. But even with $50,000 – $70,000 saved up during this time period, that’s still short of the $115,000 downpayment on a median $575,000 house. In every case I know their parents pitch in to cover the rest of the downpayment or more. (See: How Much Money Should I Have Accumulated By Age?)

To corroborate my anecdotes, I sat down for lunch with a Prudential partner one day. He mentioned at least 50% of his friends before they were 30 lived with their parents, and 25% of his friends still live with their parents over 30. In other words, generational wealth plays a huge part in the home buying process. For real estate investors out there, the partner sees houses on the Waialae Nue Ridge as good relative value.

Gas prices are on the high end at $3.70 for normal, $3.80 for premium, and $3.95 for super. But food prices is what really stings. Because over 80% of the food consumed in Hawaii is imported, prices are regularly 10-30% higher than the mainland. You may want to change your diet to something more locally oriented such as eating papayas, mangos, poke, laulau, and poi to save money.

If you come to Hawaii from foodie havens such as New York City or San Francisco, you may be disappointed with the cuisine. It would be one thing if the comparable cuisines were the same price, but if food costs 10-30% more than the mainland, your expectations are for 10-30% tastier food. When you don’t get that, it’s disappointing.

The main cuisines revolve around Korean BBQ, Chinese, Japanese, Hawaiian, and fast food. It’s the same five things over and over again. If any entrepreneur wants to open up an incredible Mexican or Malaysian restaurant, the opportunity is wide open. Some good restaurant choices in Honolulu include: Ono’s, Salt, Yakiniku Camelia, Doraku, Morimoto’s, and Uncle Bo’s.

Due to high living costs, Hawaii makes it much harder to leave your parents as an adult. If you become overly dependent on your parents then it becomes very difficult to stretch to do other things because you’re already stretching to survive.

HAWAII WILL TEST YOUR RESOLVE

Everywhere you go in Honolulu, the city is booming with people. Tourists are flocking back to the islands in droves now that world economies are back. The unemployment rate in Honolulu is only 4.2% compared to the nation’s 7.3% unemployment rate, which is part of the reason why traffic is so horrendous during rush hour. Even with all the tech and internet fever in San Francisco, San Francisco’s unemployment rate still lags behind by 1.7% at ~5.9%.

To give you an example of how strong the economy is, we hosted a team building offsite at The Kahala Hotel & Resort during off peak season in November and the standard rooms with only partial views were going for $600 a night! The hotels in Waikiki were also packed with average room rates of over $250 a night. The Kahala Hotel & Resort is my favorite resort in Oahu due to its location and very tranquil setting (top picture). I just can’t afford to stay there for very long! Shout out to Shane Lani, the manager from the Seaside Grill for taking care of us for lunch. The service is always fantastic.

A booming economy does make doing business theoretically easier due to higher demand, but Hawaii is still tiny compared to the immediate publicity you might get from starting a business in New York City with 10X the population. Just open a BBQ joint and you could easily see lines around the block if it gets profiled by a major food blog like Eater. If you want to start a tech company in San Francisco, you’ve got unlimited resources to do so.

CONCLUSION

Hawaii is a magical place that promises to make you happier. The people are friendly if you respect the culture. If you can avoid the temptation of good weather, amazing scenery, and pristine beaches to focus on your career and earn enough to afford a house on your own, you can make it anywhere.

All the glory goes to someone who doesn’t succumb to temptation when temptation is all around!

Readers, do you agree that it’s much harder to make money and save for retirement if you are living in a fantastic environment like Hawaii? Is there a correlation with weather, effort, motivation, and work ethic? Is it not easier to make it in a big city like NYC where jobs and demand for products and services are plentiful? Do you know anybody who went to Hawaii and never left? 

Please send this article to friends you know who currently live in Hawaii. I’d love to hear their feedback and will add to the post to make it better. This post is written on the back of my recent four week visit in November-December, 2013. I’m considering permanently relocating in Spring 2015.

If you’re looking for more peace and quiet in Oahu, simply drive 30-45 minutes West, East, or North of Honolulu. The other islands are also a nice choice. 

Mahalo,

Sam

 

Sam started Financial Samurai in 2009 during the depths of the financial crisis as a way to make sense of chaos. After 13 years working on Wall Street, Sam decided to retire in 2012 to utilize everything he learned in business school to focus on online entrepreneurship.

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Comments

  1. says

    I’ve been to Hawaii once, for our honeymoon back in 2007. We spent a few days in Maui, then a few days in Waikiki right in the center of it all. The thing that blew my mind was the existence of an ABC Shop on every block, sometimes more than one.

  2. says

    We love Hawaii. I guess everyone does. Can I get on the list for the offsite team building? The housing price is high, but we can probably swing it. I’m more concern about the higher cost of food and fuel. We’ll keep our option open, but we’re leaning toward Santa Barbara at this point for our retirement destination.

    • says

      I really think you need to spend at least $800,000 in Oahu to get a house you’d enjoy in a location that’s not too far away even though the median says $575,000.

      Everybody who works for over 500 hours for my company a year will get on the list for the next offsite for sure!

      • says

        We’d probably go for a more rural place in Hawaii. Honolulu area is pretty busy. Far away would be fine as long as we have good internet connection.

  3. Mark says

    Great article Sam; I’m hoping to make it to Hawaii sometime in the next two years.

    I also started my career at Goldman. You missed the new 200W building, which was awesome, and now I’m at the Blackstone Group. I’m curious to know which bank in San Francisco you went to after GS. Can you divulge?

    I definitely agree with you though that it’s expected to be working long hours in NYC. Between the free food and your employer’s expectations, you often find yourself leaving the office past 9pm. I’m hoping when I move out of NYC, I’ll have an easy time finding a job since it’s the center of the US financial markets.

    Enjoy Hawaii!

    • says

      I have definitely heard some amazing things about 200W! You’ll never have to leave the building again with those facilities yeah?

      I think you’ll get one shot at leveraging NYC on your resume. As soon as I’m done receiving all my deferred comp I’ll be more open to discussing my previous employer. Never quit Blackstone Group OK?

      • joe says

        Sam – you should do a post on defferred comp. This allows you to trickle income over years to dodge the higher tax rates? Wow u must have cleaned house, just read another post where u are pulling 36k in CD income, I’m in the wrong business!

        • says

          It took 13 years of aggressive saving to accumulate a 36K/year CD income. And after all this time, the income will go down as the 7-year CDs come off. Rates are currently only around 2.5% at best for a similar long term CD, so I’m looking to reinvest elsewhere.

          If one can smooth out their compensation, all the better due to taxes. I think the ultimate income is roughly $200,000 for tax purposes and lifestyle combination.

          What business are you in?

        • joe says

          >> What business are you in?

          Im in tech, in my mid 30’s and earn just over 100k/yr. Currently socking away 50% of that income (401k, IRA, HSA, taxable- CDs/savings). I guess grass always seems greener on the other side. Tech there is plenty of chances to make it big (get lucky with startup IPO I suppose), I feel finance, esp wall st., bonus money paid out is huge. GS avg bonus tends to be twice what the average american makes in a year. Im just a line worker must go into management to earn 150-200 and beyond. It will probably take me at least another 10 years to obtain your level… I suppose if I really want it I could go management route or gamble with an IPO…

          • says

            Joe,

            If you can sock away 50% of your income, that’s really all the matters. You’ll be financially independent in no time.

            Yes, Wall St. compensation is large relative to other industries. The good thing is that America is a free country and if they wanted larger compensations, they can always apply to join a financial services firm.

            I’d shoot for the management track. Nothing to lose!

        • joe says

          Thanks Sam for the vote of confidence. I will however respectfully disagree with you about anyone joining financial services, at least earning incomes you obtained. I recently obtained a master degree in my technical field. Before hand I highly considered the management track, that is going with a MBA program. What I found is MBA’s are dime a dozen unless its a top 10 school and Wall St. seems to only hire from top 10. I’m certain my undergrad GPA and GMAT wouldn’t be enough for a top 10 school acceptance. Sure maybe this is just a detail that the MBA could still enable someone to eventually earn $200k+ at a regional bank, non-wall st firm, etc. But even those positions are still highly competitive, require 10+ years exp on top of the MBA credential, etc. IMO only doctor is only a sure bet, but after factoring school debt 200k is not 200k.

          • says

            I think anybody who has enough drive can get into a top MBA program to join a Wall St. firm. Don’t sell yourself short. You’ve got to believe to make it happen.

            I went to a non-target state school and got into Goldman Sachs in their WHQ in the Equities department. It was a front office job as opposed to back office. Anything is possible. But it starts with self belief.

      • joe says

        Sorry for making this thread so long! Thanks again Sam always good view points. In a piece of irony, yesterday, I read Jim Cramer’s book Confessions of a Street Addict. Jim made 1 million per year in his forth year at GS — this back in the mid 80’s, impressive. During the interview process they made him wait hours before eventually telling him to leave because the building would be locked up for the night. I don’t know if it was you or some other source, but I heard GS does that even today. See who is that dedicated or something.

  4. says

    Okay, first things first. Nobody anywhere in North America is ever entitled to complain about high gas prices!

    Now that’s out of the way … the lifestyle is a lot slower paced in Hawaii though right? In the Cook Islands life is sweet and anything that’s not produced locally costs a bomb (which is almost everything) but it’s so slow – island time. It’s all about leisure.

    • says

      Funny that is the one thing you pointed out that consisted of one line in this 2,200 word article! There wasn’t even a complaint just a comparison to mainland prices! Are high gas prices a sore spot for Kiwis? :)

      Yes, the lifestyle is slower, even the speed limit of 50mph on the highway. Takes time getting used to, but not so much for me anymore.

  5. says

    Well as you know, I just got back from Kauai and you’re right on. Food is definitely more expensive but I love Hawaiian food: fish, poke, katsu, etc In fact, my whole trip kind of revolved around where we were going to eat haha. I actually forgot how expensive food was/is but there are so many free activities on HI like you mention. I try to avoid the helicopter rides and fancy tours in favor of snorkeling, hiking and exploring.

  6. says

    Sam it’s a myth that people who live at home are saving a lot of money. Majority of them have some saved up but usually have lifestyle inflation. No one puts down 20%, usually 10 as a first time homebuyer.
    By 2018 or 2019 the median house price is projected to be $1 million dollars, at that point I don’t know how people starting out will afford a place.
    You also missed about how people are more genuine here and really do watch out for each other. In the Bay Area I had such a different vibe.

    • says

      You sure about that? Did you not save up to put 20% down or was it less?

      Seems to be easy to save money if you live with your parents.

      If the median house price is projected to be $1 million in HI, shouldn’t we all be buying and getting rich? Why would anybody rent then if they could buy?

      Hard to get everything from a 2,200 word article, but I did emphasize family. And when I think family I think people watching over each other. Each person’s experience is different?

      • says

        Sam I got in my first property at 5%, second 6%, my current house was over 20 but we borrowed against other properties for that. The wife’s unit was over 20 thanks to help from her parents.
        Most of the people I know save maybe 5-10% to get into a home as there is a lot of first time home buyer programs that required 5 to 10%.
        We just had a friend buy a 400K townhouse with only $15,000 down. What happens is the money they save living at home they spend some of it going out and enjoying life. Very few people I now that bought houses put 20% down, and the few that did parents gave them half

        • says

          Hmmm, I guess on the one hand it’s good to hear banks are lending with only 5-10% down. In the mainland, 20% or more is required, well at least here in the Bay Area. It has always seemed a little backwards to me that those with the least amount of financial reserves get to leverage up the most.

          I definitely believe in plenty of help from the parents in buying a home in Hawaii. It’s generational wealth and buyers need to know they are competing not only against one person.

  7. says

    I moved to NYC 2 years ago, and coming from a small town and a tiny European country, I completely agree: brutal city, trying to knock you down daily. And although it gets too hot in summer and too cold in winter, I see resemblances with what you state about Hawai: this city is distractive. Yes, the workload is heavy and the hours are long, but there’s always a party, always a free event, always someone inviting you for brunch and so, so much to see! I think everyone eventually finds his or her place on this planet, whether it’s NYC after a painful battle, or Hawai after enjoying the weather to the max.

    • says

      Great point about lots of distractions in NYC as well! What a great place to be. Love your last line about everyone eventually finding his or her place on this planet, even if such a place is in the MidWest or Canada during winter.

  8. says

    Sam,

    I hadn’t thought of it in that way, but I had similar experiences when I lived in San Diego for a decade during my twenties. I was all too content to make $40k or so at my government job, hang out on the beach, play kickball, and drink. It was a great life. Only when I moved to Arizona did I find the drive to get ahead financially.

    Like you said, the glory goes to he who fights temptation. But I wouldn’t mind moving back to SoCal someday.

    • says

      Must have been nice down there! But were you itching to leave after a while? I’ve got to imagine SD is much nicer than anywhere in Arizona no? The good thing about AZ are housing prices though.

      I experienced Laguna Beach and Newport Beach for the first time last year. Amazing. Exactly what you think about when people refer to California. Might have to go explore over there more. But I like the diversity of Hawaii better. It feels like home because that’s where my family is.

      • says

        My wife is pursuing her PhD in Arizona, so that brought us here from San Diego. On the plus side, AZ has been fantastic to us financially and I’ve grown to really like it. But I’m not picky. I think I’d be pretty happy regardless of which city we end up living in.

        We visited Oahu last year and had a great time. Took Da Bus up to the north shore to check out the wave and ate some Thai at Opal’s…one of the better dining experiences we had. We’re going to the Big Island in February and can’t wait. Hawaii’s a pretty awesome place — glad you get to be with family there.

  9. says

    Living in southern California, I just do not understand the fascination with Hawaii. We went with friends years ago to Maui for a week in August. We enjoyed it, but not enough to return. I guess it is because we get enough hot weather and beautiful scenery. Almost all our vacations have been to Europe, if I exclude our summers at the beach in southern California.

    I definitely agree there are many obstacles t the good life in Hawaii. Insufficient pay, high housing prices (similar to California) and food prices (groceries & restaurants). I even saw ads for teachers with salaries of $100k. Not enough to live well!

  10. says

    Hawaii is awesome. I love NYC too but I’d pick Hawaii over Manhattan in a heart beat. I can totally understand the distraction element of living somewhere warm and beautiful and wanting to be outside all day instead of inside at work. I guess finding a job that allows you to be outside in Hawaii would be ideal. But it can get super hot too in the middle of the day so being outside isn’t always better.

  11. Vivek Gupta says

    Sam,

    I started reading your blog very recently & wanted to congratulate you for maintaining such a useful blog. Each of your blog entries are very well researched, useful & entertaining.

    Keeping writing such useful stuff.

    Regards,
    Vivek Gupta

  12. says

    It is definitely harder to continue chasing the “almighty dollar” if you live in a fantastic environment!! But is that such a bad thing? At what point should you “slow down” (whatever the heck that really means), breathe deeply, and enjoy life to the fullest?! I am always fascinated with the question of, “enough”… I have met with several millionaire entrepreneurs (50s) on the east coast who wish they had exited the “accumulation phase” sooner in order to figure our what makes them (and their families) happy.

    It’s interesting that in the end – the things that make us most happy don’t cost that much: good food, peace of mind, exercise, challenging work and quality relationships… :-)

    I really loved your “tone” in this post Sam. I am very encouraged that you are continuing to discover what the “good life” means for you!! Cheers!!

    • says

      Living in a fantastic environment is certainly great. I just wouldn’t want to START living in paradise. Starting at the opposite end will allow for a longer lasting appreciation of what we have. It’s really the journey that’s most rewarding because all we know is what we experience.

      It’s so easy to take things for granted. Better to have more perspective.

      Thanks Nate!

  13. says

    I live in Maui, and agree with most of the post. The economy is getting stronger, but HI is a tremendously difficult place to start a business. If you have any ideas, I’m all ears. I’ve been trying to find the right opportunity for some time now, as the job market out here is very sparse.

    • says

      Sounds like a dream Chuck! What is it that you do exactly in Maui?

      I wonder if Maui Jim’s is hiring?

      To my thesis, given it’s hard to start a business in Maui, if you can start a successful business in Maui you can start a successful business anywhere!

  14. says

    This is a great post Sam. I was in the exact same situation – and although I wish I could say I packed up my bags and moved to my dream city, I can’t. I did change fields after the market crash in 2008 from investment planning to corporate communications, but I think a part of me will always wonder – What if I moved away and started over? Where would I be and would I be happier?

  15. says

    I think you can become complacent no matter where you are, but worse in nicer/expensive places. I don’t have much experience with Hawaii, but we’ve had people with a master’s degrees in business, biochemistry, and health care administration apply for receptionist jobs there. You live with three or four roommates, make enough to eat, pay rent, and go out to the bars. Find a way to get Pro deals on all your gear and work enough hours at an employer who offers a ski pass and you’re set. However, most people grow up and move on to somewhere more affordable when they actually want to have a family and settle down.

    • says

      Hard to move anywhere else though once you’ve been accustomed.

      Seems like the lesson from your anecdotes is to NOT move to Hawaii if you’ve got graduate+ degrees because they have a lower chance of being fully utilized.

  16. Brenda says

    Yes, nice article! And oh so true. The gas, among other things, is expensive but on a positive note, we don’t have very far to go. Maybe the occasional trip to the other side of the island, but it’s not very far–not compared to the mainland, at least.

    The issue for us is that my children do not know another season besides summer. It’s Christmas week and they are at the beach with friends. Their goal is to get to the east coast to see “the leaves change color.” My daughter spent this fall in Europe and can’t stop talking about the beauty of ‘leaves’ — but once the temperature dropped into the low 40’s, she couldn’t take the cold and had to come home!

    I guess the grass is always greener elsewhere, but even with the high prices, I’m happy where I am. If I want to see “leaves” or culture or go shopping, I can always go on vacation. Wherever you may be, life is truly what you make of it! Here’s wishing happiness to all! Peace.

  17. JayCeezy says

    Mele Kalikimaka, and Don Ho Ho Ho!

    “No matter what religion you are, have a Merry Christmas!” – Steve Martin

  18. says

    My husband and I relocated to Kauai in May of this year. We work for ourselves (web development) and are renting. Yes, gas is higher BUT we drive about 10-20% of what we used to drive back on the mainland, so overall, we’re saving money on gas. We eat a whole foods type diet so we’ve found that while food prices are marginally higher for meats, veggies, fruits — overall, it’s not enough to really cause us any worry. Plus, we quit eating out when we moved here so food-wise, we’re coming out way ahead. Another thing we quit doing was going to the movies. There are no mega theaters here (the only kind we like) so we just wait for the movie to come out on Redbox and watch it on our large tv. Right there we’re saving somewhere in the neighborhood of $30-40 per movie (tickets, snacks, etc).

    We’ve found that the only thing to really complain about (if one wanted to complain – I mean, we’re in Hawaii now… what’s there to complain about? lol) is the cost of electricity. We don’t have an AC unit or any central air/heating of any kind but our average utility bill is $280/mo. That’s for just 600kwh per month. Really outrageous. Our way of dealing with this is to turn off the hot water most of the time. We turn it on 30 mins or so before we want to use it and off again an hour or so later. This has cut our bill down considerably and we haven’t had to really adjust how we live (hot showers are not needed here…).

    We love it here and wish we’d relocated sooner. Prior to our move, we were “nomads” traveling the country in a travel trailer (as long as we have internet, we can work anywhere). After being put out of commission but a freak hail storm in northern TX, we made the decision to go to Plan B – Hawaii. We chose Kauai as we wanted a more laid back lifestyle w/out all the tourism and traffic that is so prevalent on Oahu.

    Re: our work — I don’t know that it has really changed since we moved here. I know we’re both more relaxes and less stressed so we get more done and any issues that come up as a result of being stressed out have pretty much died off. Since moving here, we’ve started walking every night – that’s new – so we both feel healthier and sleep better.

    We love the island life. We love the roosters (even those that crow outside the window at 4am). We don’t miss anything that we used to have in the larger cities we’ve lived in. But most of all, we feel like we’ve finally found home. After 22 years of marriage, this is the first place that we both feel is IT. There are no plans to ever leave this paradise. When work gets on our nerves, it’s a delight to hit the local beach and not see a million people there. It’s sometimes just us and the waves and in the end, that’s really what it’s all about to us. Peaceful tranquility, lush foliage, the scent of flowers on the daily breeze, the torrential downpours that come at a moment’s notice. This is home.

    • says

      Love the feedback! Moving from N Texas to Kauai must be the best move ever! Are you not shell shocked over property prices though? You can buy a nice house for $200k in TX but not so much in Kauai. Did you domicile your Internet biz in TX to avoid paying HI state taxes too? If so, that is a sweet move.

      I’m also curious to know if/when you’ll start getting island fever. I’ve got this 6months in Oahu, 3 months SF/Tahoe and 3 months traveling notion in my head for the future.

      • says

        We didn’t live in TX – we were just there for a month as we traveled the US. That being said, we were looking to make that our domicile later in the year – but with the travel trailer out, that changed. We’re actually AZ state residents and everything is registered there. We’ll be switching it all to HI now since we’ve made the decision to live here full-time.

        I have had gypsy fever most of my life. Thus our decision to move into the trailer and travel. That way we could go anywhere as the mood struck. Surprisingly, this is the first time EVER that I can recall being somewhere over 6 months and not feeling the move to go elsewhere. We made plans to go to WA state for Christmas (family there) but now that we’re on the eve of leaving, we’re both feeling saddened to be leaving. We were really looking forward to Christmas under the palm trees.

        It’s like where we’re at is what we were unconsciously looking for our entire marriage. I’m not saying we’ll *never* get island fever — but certainly not as quickly as others have thought we would. We love our life here. It’s simple and basic and we’re super duper content. That being said… we have plans to go to New Zealand for a month or so sometime in 2014. We have this burning desire to visit there and experience a few weeks in Kiwiland! Travel is always a great idea ;) Your plan sounds good to me.

  19. says

    Loved the article, Sam! I lived in Fiji for a couple of months and then vacationed in Hawaii a year later and the island life has drawn me like a magnet ever since. One day maybe we’ll make it out there to stay. We’ll be on Maui for Thanksgiving next year, though! Baby steps, right? :)

    I agree wholeheartedly that living in Hawaii would make me a little more content with a slower-paced life and therefore a slower-paced income. Why spend so much time working when you are surrounded by so much?

  20. says

    “Is there a correlation with weather, effort, motivation, and work ethic?” I definitely think so. Reminds me of the spring quarters in college when the weather turned nice. Nobody wanted to be in classes or hanging out in the library. You wanted to get outside and go play. Blowing off studies became too easy.

    I’ll second the shout-out to the Kahala…beautiful resort. And I’ll confirm the traffic issues around Honolulu. Thought I was back home in Atlanta’s rush hour traffic. My favorite parts of visiting Hawaii were seeing a large group of dolphins swim next to our boat on a sunset cruise and then flying over and hiking out to the volcano lava flows on the Big Island. Spectacular!

    • says

      Bingo on the school example!

      I wonder if Hawaii will have to go the way of Singapore and charge huge fees during rush hour and importation taxes. That’s really the only way to curb traffic as Honolulu isn’t building public transportation fast enough.

  21. says

    I haven’t been to Hawaii for many years, but what I remember it’s a very laid back atmosphere. I loved visiting Kauai – it was my favorite island – and remember talking to a young girl (my age at the time). I mentioned that we were staying at Princeville but were in Poipu (I think) that day. She was flabbergasted that we were trekking all over the island. To her, Princeville was so far away. She had never traveled much farther than Poipu. Coming from Los Angeles, I thought nothing of the distance and had trouble understanding her perspective. The Hawaiian Islands offer a different lifestyle than the mainland, especially the large metros. But I think I could get used to a slower and more content lifestyle.

  22. says

    You’re definitely moving the right direction. I constantly hear about how expensive everything in Hawaii is, especially the food. Honestly, compared to the Bay area and dealing with the high prices here, Hawaii doesn’t seem so bad.

    Personally, I don’t like humidity. So while Hawaii is wonderful in the winter, the humidity in the summer is uncomfortable.

    Great place to visit, but I don’t think I’d want to live there.

    • says

      Everything in Hawaii is cheaper than San Francisco except for the food due to importation. But I love their papayas, pumelos, white puree mangoes, and Hawaiian food so that’s what I’ll be focusing on eating the most.

      Summers are hot indeed. Got to pray for the tradewinds.

  23. rubin pham says

    i first went to hawaii in 1996, working as a computer consultant back when no indian competition was around. honolulu was love at first sight for me. i loved walking around waikiki at night and watched the japanese tourists passing by.
    the white consultant i worked with made comments that hawaiian police would never dared touch japanese tourist. he called it “reverse racism”.
    i was borned in saigon south vietnam where at night before 1975 i could walk around the city and watched people for fun. waikiki reminded me of that old saigon i loved and missed.
    i have several attempts to buy waikiki condotel since 2010 but no luck.
    i have been to all 50 states in the united states and hawaii is by far my favorite.

  24. Local one says

    Wow you make it really sound like paradise but as a kamaina most people here do struggle making ends meet. Kamaina rates are few and far between and not that great anyway, cost of living is so high that a family of four with 100k income per yr would be living modestly at best. Strong feeling that everyone is on vacation here is probably how tourists and transplants feel, not locals. A lot of mainlanders try to move here thinking its paradise but soon find out it’s really difficult adjusting to the local customs and culture and end up moving back after a year or so.

  25. Ashley says

    I lived on Oahu, just for a year and a half and I have to say you are so right about the work ethic going down hill due to the lovely surroundings. There’s no sense of urgency to move ahead because everything’s already great. Hiking, kayaking, bbq’s, eating at delicious shrimp trucks was a lot of fun.

    I obviously never bought a home there but the prices seemed prohibitively expensive. If I worked in Honolulu I would want to live in Hawaii Kai for the traffic problems alone. But it’s culture is too bougie. And I totally understand why the locals are bothered by all these wealthy foreigners buying property that they themselves are having difficulty affording. It’s their home and it is becoming increasingly difficult to afford thanks to outsiders or ‘haoles’ hiking up the prices.

    Ultimately, I wouldn’t want to stay in HI for life as I feel too isolated on a rock in the middle of the ocean and island fever is REAL. Coming from the east coast I just couldn’t handle being on an island that I’ve thoroughly explored. I love road trips and exploring new places and after a while I became *gasp* bored of Oahu. I’d island hop too but after a while it all seemed to be pretty beaches and greenery. I also missed the 4 seasons which I know you didn’t love so much in the east coast but without them it’s almost as though you don’t notice time passing by, which I think also reduces any sense of urgency.

    Ok that’s my rant thanks so much for your blog, it’s a goldmine of great info!

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