How Does It Feel To Be Financially Independent?
A number of people have asked since I left my job how it feels to be financially independent. The quick answer is, everyday feels like Christmas. Whether you are Christian or not, the feeling is the same as when you were a kid every holiday morning. You go to bed late because you’re so excited, and you wake up early because you’re so excited!
I’ve been financially independent since 2009 when I realized my passive income could cover all expenses, forever. There was one point during the recession where I thought I’d have to start all over if things continued to worsen. Thankfully, the world didn’t end and I decided to hang on for the recovery and then some just to be safe. It didn’t hurt that financial firms raised base salaries by ~70% to comply with the government’s desire to lower year end bonuses. Ironically, the government allowed us to live more freely with higher cash flow. Those smart enough to negotiate received much higher severance packages because severance is based off base income!
When you’ve accumulated enough capital, or have built enough income streams, you no longer have to worry as much about money. Money will always be somewhat of a concern, but the concerns fade into the background. The end game has always been health, friends, family, purpose and happiness. Money is only a means to help facilitate such desires. In order to stop caring about money, you’ve first got to care a great deal about money. This means saving and investing your money, creating a financial plan, less complaining, and more doing.
Sacrificing and hustling when you still have the energy is worth it. If you are torn between being an optimist or a pessimist, waking up at 6am to get extra work done or sleeping in, and controlling what you can control or complaining about why the world isn’t fair, I always encourage the former, former, former!
REASONS TO STRIVE FOR FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE
* People don’t piss you off as much anymore. You know the people who are always late because they are selfish with their time? They used to bug me to no end. What about those who steal your ideas and don’t give credit? I could go on and on about such people in the work place and online. Or how about some who only contact you when they need something? Seriously, bug off! All these people use to piss me off, but now they hardly ever bother me anymore. I just stop associating with them, because I no longer care about lost opportunity.
* You begin to appreciate the government. When you’re working hard at your job or running a business, you slowly start resenting the fact the government takes more and more money away from you the more you earn. You also don’t like it when other people vote to raise your taxes without having to pay more themselves. I’m willing to bet the government takes more in taxes than most people save! How crazy is that? Meanwhile, you witness all the government waste, and don’t have time to enjoy public services. Now that I don’t have a W2 income anymore, I don’t pay W2 income taxes! I also get to enjoy the libraries, parks, museums, and concerts all for free during the weekdays. The return on my taxes has increased! I have so many friends who play tennis everyday and kick back thanks to the government. They aren’t rich, but they love life and are not stressed.
* Your health improves. Stress kills. During my most stressful working days I developed chronic back pain, tendonitis in my elbow, and TMJ (jaw clenching, teeth grinding). My chronic back pain has long been cured since reading Dr. Sarno’s Healing Pack Pain Book nine years ago, however, it wasn’t until I became financially independent did my elbow and TMJ disappear! Our health is priceless. Every time I’m sick, I wish to give anything to feel better. We need to remind ourselves how important our health is when we are healthy because it’s easy to take it for granted when we are young.
* You no longer are afraid of being disposed. I always had a little bit of worry I’d come into work one day and be called up to HR and get fired. A little bit of paranoia is good for everyone. It’s just an annoying feeling. Finance is a very cyclical and cutthroat business that will lay people off by the tens of thousands a year. Not only would I feel angry about being let go, I’d feel tremendously embarrassed as I packed up my box of things. Part of the reason why I wrote How To Engineer Your Layoff is so I could empower people to take control of their own destiny and leave on their own terms. There’s no better feeling than leaving a place you would have left for free, but got a nice wad of cash in addtion!
* Accomplishing things gets easier. When we first start out, it’s rare to be able to make a living off something you’d do for free. We’ve got to pay our dues, and sometimes, those dues can last a lifetime. I think part of the reason why Financial Samurai and the Yakezie Network have grown to where they are today is because I did everything as a hobby. I wrote for free and will continue to write for free even if I had no online income. I flipped the affiliate income switch on once I announced my departure from the corporate world and income just started flooding in because all my previous articles were written in a way that shared my honest story. When you start doing things you want to do, everything suddenly becomes much easier.
* You hang out with people because you want to, not because you need to. There are times when you need to go spend time with someone you may not particularly like because you’d like their business or need their recommendation. When you’re financially independent, you almost only hang out with people because you enjoy their company first. They might end up being a great connection down the road, but that’s because you guys become great friends.
* You gain even more confidence. So much of succeeding in anything has to do with confidence. At least once a week, I play tennis with the president of one of the largest mutual fund companies in the world. So many people want his attention, but can’t get it because he’s a busy man. He’s also quite intimidating to anybody in the finance world. But, I talk smack to him all the time because we’re friends, competitors, and I don’t rely on him for anything. I belong on the court just as much as him. When you feel confident you belong, good things start happening because the belief in yourself pulls you forward.
* You become even less afraid to fail. So many of my projects have flopped, I don’t know where to begin. I try to learn from each mistake so that one day, I might create something successful. Trying is scary for the only reason that failure is embarrassing or financially disastrous. However, if you have the financial means to withstand disappointment, then you become less and less afraid to fail to the point where you start succeeding more and more. Just imagine a world where none of your investments would ever lose money. You’d be willing to take huge risks. Just don’t over leverage yourself!
* You stand up for what’s right. There’s a lot of bullshit in the world that goes unchallenged because people are afraid of the repercussions. How many times have you bit your tongue because you were worried about the consequences? When you are financially independent, you are more confident to speak your mind when you see an injustice because your survival doesn’t depend on your reputation, a person, or a company. Just the other day, a tennis opponent quit his match after being down 4-6, 1-5, 30-all because of a close call I made which was clearly out. He started cussing at me so I walked right up to his face and told him not only was he a sore loser, he best apologize for swearing at me. He was in shock at the confrontation and apologized saying he was out of line. He realized he could not afford to damage his reputation because he was a professional tennis teacher. Tennis is just my hobby, but to him, tennis is his lifeline. Anybody who wrongs me online or offline should be very careful because I will happily go to war. Bullies need to be eradicated. It’s a wonderful feeling to never have to back down from anyone.
* You care less about what other people think. Caring less about what people think is Yin to the Yang of standing up for what’s right. It feels liberating to have insults and insinuations roll off your back. There’s less desire to try and get even or one up your dissenter because you’re already set. Insults are usually hurled by unsettled people who want what you have. They are secure and hope to bring you down to their level so they can feel better about themselves. Showing neutrality or even compassion is the preferred method of action. You actually start enjoying people talking bad behind your back or attacking you because it just shows how good you have it. It’s a pretty interesting phenomena!
* You make your parents proud. Our parents tend to give us everything and ask for very little in return. They hope we can simply lead happy, self-sustainable lives. When we are financially independent, our parents worry less about us. We start spending more time with our parents, figuring out ways in which we can give back to them for all their years of sacrifice. I think hearing my parents say they are so happy that I’m happy is priceless. I want to focus on doing everything I can to allow them to live great lives.
FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE IS WORTH IT
Hard work is awesome because the benefits last long after the hard work is done. I’ve been called “lucky” many times and I don’t mind. It’s very motivating when people attribute any success to luck instead of hard work. I am lucky for living and working in America, having a supportive family, nice friends, a functioning mind, and all four limbs. I also realize the harder I work, the luckier I get. I don’t know why, but it’s true.
If you’re considering financial independence, go for it. And if you fail, work more for it!
Recommended Actions For Achieving Financial Independence
1) Manage Your Finances In One Place: The best way to become financially independent is to get a handle on your finances by signing up with Personal Capital. They are a free online platform which aggregates all your financial accounts in one place so you can see where you can optimize. Before Personal Capital, I had to log into eight different systems to track 25+ difference accounts (brokerage, multiple banks, 401K, etc) to manage my finances. Now, I can just log into Personal Capital to see how my stock accounts are doing and how my net worth is progressing. I can also see how much I’m spending every month. There is no better financial tool online that has helped me more to achieve financial freedom. It only takes a minute to sign up.
2) Refinance Your Mortgage: If you are a homeowner and you have not refinanced in the past year, I strongly suggest you check online to see what the latest rates are. There is seriously some serious mortgage interest savings to be had! I always check with Quicken Loans because they are fast, quick, and provide a no obligation real quote based on the input you provide. I recently refinanced to a 5/1 ARM for 2.625% in the Summer of 2012 after just refinancing in the fall of 2011 for 3.125% from 3.625%! I am now saving $4,000 a year in mortgage interest.
3) Check Your Credit Score: Everybody needs to check their credit score once a year given the risk of identity theft and the fact that 30% of credit scores have errors. For over a year, I thought I had a 790ish credit score and was fine, until my mortgage refinance bank on day 80 of my refinance told me they could not go through due to a $8 late payment by my tenants from two years ago! My credit score was hit by 110 points to 680 and I could not get the lowest rate! I had to spend an extra 10 days fixing my score by contacting the utility company to write a “Clear Credit Letter” to get the bank to follow through. Check your credit score for free at GoFreeCredit.com and protect yourself. The averaged credit score for a rejected mortgage applicant is 729.