You can’t deny how someone feels. They just do and you’ve got to accept it. Maybe the color blue looks different between two people. We’ll never know because we can only know ourselves. I started this site as a way to deal with the agony of the financial meltdown in 2008-2009. I needed to find […]
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Some of you have privately inquired what’s gotten into me lately, writing so many relationship type posts. The simple answer is that I’m petrified about being a father. More specifically, I’m worried that I am going to be a horrible father to a daughter. Women are complicated enough. To add a daughter into the mix is
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Resourceful women are great. They are fighters who know what they want and get what they want. In “If You Were Broke Would You Settle For Someone Less Than Ideal,” poor Amanda was destined to fail in comparison to six figure earning Victoria the way I wrote the comparison. I didn’t do a good enough
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A news reporter chased me down on the Upper West Side the other day asking whether I could share my thoughts on FOMO. I had no idea what he was talking about. He said, “FOMO, you know, the fear of missing out! Doctors are diagnosing kids with FOMO more frequently nowadays because schools aren’t allowing
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This post is an ode to endless perfect summers. For finding our ikigai and doing things we care about the most. The pandemic has really made me and hopefully you realize that time is precious. We most focus on doing things that are meaningful and that matter! Imagine standing barefoot on the sand just far
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If you were broke, would you settle for a less than ideal partner to save you? This is the question some people have asked me. Given older women refuse to talk to me, I decided to have a couple conversations with two lovely, younger women about personal finances one night out of town. Nothing gets
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Do you have the fear of being alone forever? I never have because I’ve always been with someone since 14. However, the older I get, the more I meet people who are still single in their 30s and 40s. That fear of being alone forever grows, especially after a loneliness epidemic grew after the pandemic.
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I am an opponent of consumer debt because the interest rates that credit cards charge are usurious when compared to the government bond yield of ~4.5%. If you are going to use a credit card, please pay it off in full every month or you’re just lighting your money on fire. This ain’t Vegas where
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With my new goal of traveling at least 10 weeks a year, I’ve come to the realization it’s wise to get a good travel rewards credit card. They are primarily designed to help you rack up maximum travel rewards points. Then you can use your rewards points or miles to travel even more! Let’s take
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If your parents went to college, they’ll probably influence you to get a college degree as well. For those of you who will be the first in your family to go to college, or if you’re just wondering if college is worth it, read on. First I want to point out two realizations that came
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